hey. I'm sixteen years old and I'm still kinda shy to talk to girls but there is this one girls who tickles my fancy if you know what I mean. The only problem is whenever we hang out I don't what to say so I end up in an awkward position and just fall into saying random crap. What are some questions I could ask her to get her talking too so I can get to know her and have real conversations????-or- Is there something thats just missing??
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Still afraid
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Originally Posted By: Juleshey. "There is this one girl who tickles my fancy if you know what I mean. ? Just be cool "J' (I like the sound of that!) Oh and try to just be yourself when you are around her. And I would refrain for saying things like "There is this one girl who tickles my fancy if you know what I mean. ?"That's some really old phrase that my grandma would use...LOL Oh and Welcome to A2A Cool-Jules (Cool-J)
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Bring out one of your hobbies you feel comfortable sharing with her. Talk about anything that makesy ou feel comfortable, and maybe some of that awkwardness goes away, or ask her what her interests are and tell your points of view on that. If yoiu really like her, you should be able to carry the motivation to speak leisurely with her. Good luck!
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It's just hard for me to have a conversation in general i have sort of missed that important asset. so even if i know what i want to say it wont come out because I'll end up just forgetting. But I WILL definitely keep your guys's suggestions in mind. Thank you... "Cool J" I like that too. HAHA