does this make me a bad person if I do this lol? cause I kind of do it a lot. if a girl is wearing a tight top or I can see cleavage or w/e and her tits look nice I would go jack off later at home. I mean there are even girls at shcool who I've been jacking to for a while just cause I think they are really hot. Just the other day for example I saw this girl who I think has a really really hot ass wearing these short grey shorts at school. I was fantasizing about spanking her like a "naughty" girl and then fucking her and I later jacked to that thought.so, what do you think? would most people (or you) find me to be some demented pervert? peeping tom in the making? or just a sick kid?and if not, I'd like to ask this to the girls. I understand that it is typically "disgusting" and "eww omg stalker omg" if a guy wants to jack off to you, but could it, perhaps, also be complimentary in a way? I mean if you are so attractive and you make a guy horny enough to go masturbate to the thought of you, isn't that flattering in some way at all? I mean I know that I sure would be flattered if I was so hot I made a girl masturbate to me (no matter how attractive I thought she was)! (Joking! I know it doesn't work that way :P)
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Masturbating to girls at school?
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Quote:so, what do you think? would most people (or you) find me to be some demented pervert? peeping tom in the making? or just a sick kid?In all honestly, I think it's a bit creepy. But I don't really see how that's different from masturbating to porn videos or looking at magazines. However, masturbating to a fantasy doesn't make you a bad person. Quote:I'd like to ask this to the girls. I understand that it is typically "disgusting" and "eww omg stalker omg" if a guy wants to jack off to you, but could it, perhaps, also be complimentary in a way?Only if it's my boyfriend! The thought of some guy I don't know, alone in his room, jacking off with me in his mind is just creepy.
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hmm well I guess a creep isn't as bad as criminal who should be locked up. lol. should I stop though? I mean it's not an obsession at all and I could just use regular porn like usual.
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personally I stick strictly to porn.
I don't think you are nessicerly going end up a psycho.
But, it really just doesn't seem like a good idea. I mean its your call to dow hat you will.
However, I personally don't think its a good mentality to have. Then again I am not professional.
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Calling you a criminal for masturbating is overdoing it, lol. And I don't think people will judge you for it. As long as it doesn't become an obession to the point you become a stalker-like pervert, you're fine. But the choice of you not thinking of your schoolmates is yours. I or anyone can't tell you what to do with something that personal.
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To me, the act itself is okay, but if some guy that I knew told me he masturbated to me, I would be creeped out.
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Helms my friend. You have a talent for getting points across.
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It's totally normal to fantasize about the hot girls you know, while you're masturbating. That's about all I did in my spare time during high school.
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this is alittle hard to talk abotu cuz of the after happingis..but when i was 14 when shannon (b4 we first started dating) would come over i'd stand in my room and watch her. there were times i had to go to the bath room (u knwo wut i mean) it wasn't like no one knew tho. my brother knew and so did mudusa. My brother finally made me talk to her..... moving on when me and shannon did start dating there were seveal times after she had to go home that i heaed to the bath room... there were also times mudusa took advantage of knowing that...
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It's normal. It does not make you a perve in any way. However telling them about it is another story. Don't do that.
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When I was younger and in school, there was one girl in particular i jacked off to, a real sweet girl, legs that went all the way up, perfectly sized breasts, great ass, just a complete package. Then, when a senior, things worked out and we dated a while, and finally went all the way. I had her so built up in my fantasies, that when i finally went to bed with her, it was a disappointment. not that she was bad, but she was not as good as what she was in my mind and dreams.
What I am saying is, in my opinion, should stick to jacking over girls you will never meet.
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helms :"So how's this sound?Some fat old man that never could land a beautiful wife, is sitting in a cluttered room where his computer lives jacking off thinking about you and the post you made.....same difference.LOL "frankly I wouldn't have a problem with that at all. I don't give a fuck if some old fat man was wanking over my post. but if you're trying to make a comparison in order to show me how girls might feel, I don't get it. Anyone can jack to me as long as they want (be it a gay old fat man, a straight old fat man or a gay boy at school or whatever) and I honestly couldn't give a rat's ass.
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"...but she was not as good as what she was in my mind and dreams."As it is with so much of life...
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You're describing these "hypothetical" scenarios really realistically... Creepy.... (I'm joking).
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It's very normal for teenage guys to get hot and bothered over hot teenage girls. And it's very normal for teenage boys to masturbate when they get hot and bothered.At the same time, I would caution you just a little bit. You don't want things to get so much out of hand that you become one of those dudes who only see girls as hot pieces of flesh and who aren't capable of seeing them or interacting with them as anything different.I'm by no means saying that's the case with you. I have reason to believe it isn't. It's just a word of caution about extremes. Part of growing and maturing is finding appropriate middle grounds. The very fact that your concerned about this is probably a pretty good indicator that you are willing and able to find a way to "take care of yourself" without objectifying or even victimizing anyone else.
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No it's normal as far as i know... i myself have trouble trying to do this... i'm really not good at it but that's rather off topic. As far as i know it's normal; before we knew 69 --> babies, sexual urges were all that kept the human rage from not going extinct.
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its completly normal, dw about it
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as long as you dont become obbsessed or stalk them i guess its all right
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it's completely normal to jack off to hot girls at school
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It's perfectly normal to think about people at school while you masterbate.Its been going on forever.I don't think its possible to ever jack off without thinking of a freind/classmate/actor/actress/someone you work with/whatever.How did people jack off 200 years ago?they didnt have porn to look atthey had their thoughts to get them offThat's like saying its creepy to get turned on by random people at school. Normal people get turned on if they see someone that's hot and their like thinking in their mind "dang ide like to bang them" and its perfectly normal, creepy if you let anyone know what you were thinking, but perfectly normal to think in your mind.Like someone said, just don't stalk.Flirt tho, thats basically what your supposed to do