Does any women here refer to their sexual partner as daddy or sexy daddy? and to the ones that dont, what are your reasons for not?and for Guys, if your sexual partner does call you that or has, what did you think of it? and has anyone noticed that SOME women of black or hispanic descent might be more likely to refer to their partner that way? and if anyone finds that to be true, if they have an idea as to why they might be more inclined to?EDIT forgot to put "some"
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Quote:Does any women here refer to their sexual partner as daddy or sexy daddy? and to the ones that dont, what are your reasons for not?I don't because that just creeps the hell out of me. I mean, when I think of "dad", "daddy", "papa", I think of my father. Putting the word "sexy" in front of that makes me have very uncomforable feelings. Quote:and has anyone noticed that women of black or hispanic descent might be more likely to refer to their partner that way? and if anyone finds that to be true, if they have an idea as to why they might be more inclined to? What the french toast? I haven't noticed this and I'M hispanic and I've never known another hispanic woman who would call their man that. So, I don't know if that's true or not, but it sounds like another ugly stereotype to me.
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my girl friend calls me sexy caleb it;s not a sex thing tho.. it's a inside joke.cuz see a while back i couldn't figure out how to change my message thing and the one on it was stupid so i asked her to say something for me and she puts on it something like my sexy Caleb isn't around right now and something.. something.. leave a message. and my mom called me and heard it. and yea..... mom hearing u called sexy..very embarrassing...but it's a big joke now with me and Shannon... and t kinda stuck too. I did change my message thing tho. i think it says something like i don't want to answer right now so later i might call back..... i dk i never call myself and it’s been a year so i forgot exactly wut i said but ti’s near that. lol makes my Shannon and my mom laugh tho... they know i hate answering the phone and Shannon knows i hate calling... so it kinda fits. lol wow lot of rambling ............woops sorry
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I'm not big on calling my guy 'daddy' unless I'm joking around and trying to get a smile.I'm more of a 'baby' kind of gal, or I'll just call him some other personal nickname I've given him.
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i didnt mean it to sound like that, just that ive never heard a caucasian woman say that other than maybe a joke, but i have heard some black and some hispanic women use it, i didnt mean to say EVERY black woman and EVERY hispanic woman uses it, just that they seem to be more likely to use it then white women,wow i hope i phrased that correctly
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Oh, no no no! Sorry if I came off like I was pissed or something. I know you didn't mean like a generalization. It's just a bit of a suprise to, lol. From my personal experience, I haven't noticed something like that but that doesn't mean you or anyone else has.It could just be a really freaky coincidence. But hey, no harm, no foul.
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knocks on her head Duh, I knew I was forgetting a word, lol.Yes, that word would make the most sense. But I haven't heard that one in a long time. Proably the reason why I forgot it existed.ADDED:Oh yeah, so Dantek, you'll probably find more Hispanic women calling their men "mi something" (like, "mi amour"). We like to give cute names, but that's the same for ALL women, lol. Like Helms pointed out, some others will use the slang "papi". I've heard that word mostly when a woman is speaking Spanglish. But like I said, that word is either dying or I'm just not hanging around enough hispanic people.
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ooh ok good good, and others of different races might also, but i havent actually encountered many other women of other ethnicities, so i cant really comment on their sexual lingo but
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Me and my boyfriend do all the time. And he calls me mommy/mama. I guess from the outside that may seem strange, but it's normal to us. Maybe it's because we have kids.
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Quote:Does any women here refer to their sexual partner as daddy or sexy daddy? No. The idea of calling my boyfriend daddy creeps me out. Quote:and has anyone noticed that SOME women of black or hispanic descent might be more likely to refer to their partner that way? None of my black or hispanic friends refer to their partners that way. Please tell me you didn't get that from some TV or movie...
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No... I dont really like to use any cutsey names. I dont like Baby/sweetie/honey, anything like that. I'll throw in a hon when I'm being a littler mothery, and I've called him papi once or twice to get him to smile... but not much beyond that.
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lol no i didnt, from friends or just hearing it really, but not from every single one of them, my point is moreso that i have never heard any white woman say that other then joking, whilst i have heard some black or hispanic women so i was just wondering if that means theyre more likely to, and wondering why that might be, and how it is they seperate "daddy" as in lover from "daddy" as in father
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Er... If I were to have a sexual partner, and he/she called me "Daddy," in some ways, I would think of it as unnatural and kind of... weird, or unusual. But if they say it in the right way and we think of it in the right sense, I'd probably love it because I'm a BIG fan of victimization on my behalf. Probably because I'm lazy. LMAO I'm so weird
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"I WANT YOU TO CALL ME DADDY!" lol..In all seriousness I'd feel like a pedo if someone started calling me daddy in sex. I can understand if you have kids saying "talk to mom" or "momma" since I know alot of husbands who address their wives as "mom" and vice versa women who address the father of their kids as "dad"However, that would be really weird to mean it sexually. I think its sorta a compliment to say it casually... because its sorta like saying "your not just my life long partner.. your the mother of my children".However, personally I'd never have it used to address me sexually...I'd be a little freaked out.But, hey whatever floats your boat.
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"I WANT YOU TO CALL ME DADDY!" lol..
Heh, I don't know why, but that made me think of this couple that was in my store one night. The guy kept telling his girlfriend she needed to call him 'Big Daddy' when ever she talked to him and she kept telling him he had lost his mind. Well they kept play arguing about it until they were about to leave when I called out "Bye Big Daddy" because I really wanted to see their reaction. The girl nearly fell out because she couldn't believe I actually said it and he started laughing and saying "Hell yeah! That's what I'm talkin' about!" I still giggle when I think about it...
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Ther was a girl I used to work with, she was about your size but younger than me and I was 30 at the time, she had the sides of her head gray, just gray fucking hair and she was young!
being a big girl and because she pissed me off I gave her a new name, I gave names to everyone :laughing:
those people still have the names I gave them at the plant, i have a real talent for naming the poor bastards.
She became the great gray ape.
All she had to do was not fucking spit her chew all over the floor for me to stand in when I followed her for my 12 hour shift stacking ingots as they came out of the fucking casting machine. How hard is it to spit in a garbage can instead of the floor for everyone to fuckng stand in?
at any rate shes moved onto other jobs, but in a smal town I still run into her and people that nevre worked there at bars still refer to her as the great gray ape. -
Originally Posted By: Virtual_Starknocks on her head Duh, I knew I was forgetting a word, lol.Yes, that word would make the most sense. But I haven't heard that one in a long time. Proably the reason why I forgot it existed.ADDED:Oh yeah, so Dantek, you'll probably find more Hispanic women calling their men "mi something" (like, "mi amour"). We like to give cute names, but that's the same for ALL women, lol. Like Helms pointed out, some others will use the slang "papi". I've heard that word mostly when a woman is speaking Spanglish. But like I said, that word is either dying or I'm just not hanging around enough hispanic people. Like me for example.