How fast do High School relationships move?

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So, as you guys (well, some of you) know, I'm helping to raise my husbands 17 year old neice, and she is... Er... well, she has had Two boyfriends since we've moved to fairbanks, one she is with right now. Anyway, What's a normal time scale for relationships these days? (I know I'm only 21, but I never really had any high school relationships... just 18+)

This is her first day dating him, but she was with tyler for a few weeks, I just... Grr. Curious as to how far she might get till she turns 18.

it all depends on the person. my brother goes threw girls like .i dk. i can;t think of a word. lol but he's like with a girl for either weeks or months. sometimes it's a different girl every weekend. when he was in high school it was the same as he is now with girls. my sister had 1 boy friend threw her last 2 years of high school she almost married him. (he turned out to be a cheating jerk) my other sister.....yea well she's a whore. me time....... first real gf was when i was 14. after we moved (i was 15) i didn’t want anything to do with girls but i got to be friends with on and she talked me into dating her. that lasted little over a year. then the summer after i broke up with her i got with my other girlfriend and it lasted for and two and half months. then the November after Katrina i am back with Shannon (who was my first real gf back when i was 14.)now.. Shannon just amazes me...still does.laces.. i dk. she was a sweet friend and was a sweet gf until sex got involved in our relationship. the few months with Lindsey was all about getting laid. (for both of us)now with Shannon it's been over a year and will be 2 in November...and i have actually had marriage conversations about her. (not with her.. but about it with Pete.) Umm Shannon has brought up kids already 0o. It's pretty serious.

But you can't predict well what individuals will do from what the average is. Perhaps Tyler was just not right for her. Perhaps the present relationship will last until death, perhaps it will end tonight.

I dont mean like how long will it last, but like, what is the rate for being more sexual.

You want to know if she is having sex...?

Well i went out with this girl on a first date we went to the movies and it ended with us makeing out and me caressing her breast. 2nd date was dry humping and oral sex, and after that we broke up. That was when i was 16, she was a slut and i was just horny. Needless to say we figured out we didnt really connect (we didnt really give ourselves a chance to connect). Was just more of a sexual thing. Just depends on who she is seeing and what not.

sob sob

im still with my high school boyfriend. almost 4 years now. fooled around about a month into the relationship. mind you, it took him 3 weeks to actually get the balls and kiss me lol. i was a little young..(15)i gave him a blow job about a month and a half into it. and we had sex 3 months after we started going out.

Your parents must've been proud that their 15 year old daughter was having sex already

Oh yes definately.I just love how you try and piss me off by saying this shit to me. At least I'm happy and in a relationship.

At least I'm happy and in a relationship. I'm sure that'll last forever

lol see what i mean? you keep picking out these little things to try and piss me off. just because your unhappy doesnt mean your going to drag me and anyone else down with it.

My first date with my ex, within 6 hours we did everything but sex. Handjobs, fingering, oral, etc... we would have gone the whole way if we had had a condom. I was 17 and she was 16, but both of us were as horny as fuck.

"Your parents must've been proud that their 17 year old son was having sex already"

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My parents never gave a hoot, my aunties were the proud ones! But sure, isn't a 15 year old girl the maturity-equivalent of a 17 year old guy?

lol!IMO yes i think so. but more than likely someone will disagree and say otherwise I just love how my posts are picked apart just to try and make me feel like a slut

Well, Ashley. You know StillSearching's temperment. The responsible thing to do would be just to ignore it. Plain and simple. I'm not defending him at all. I just think that you've been a member here long enough to learn how to let shit go.

yea i do know his temper. and for some reason hes still here. did anyone even read what he wrote here?my bad.the thing is, i answered the o.p's question and he of course has something nasty to say to me. i didnt think that was allowed in this forum.

Yes, he wrote that your parents must have been real proud that you were having sex at 16.

im 17, my girlfriend is 19...it took us two months to decide to have intercouse...but thats just my experience, they can vary, its not sumthing that can really be estimated.