Hi everyone. I have a committed long distance relationship, but i cheated on my boyfriend back in late April with someone I do not know very well. I really regret this. We had sex twice. the condom broke during the second time and that really freaked me out. I asked my partner to get tested for HIV right away and it came back negative. I had a painless red spot on my labia minora right after the condom broke, but it went away. about a month later, it came back again and went away again. But after that, I have been feeling tired and loss of apetite and weight till now. I got tested for HIV in the beginning of June and it was negative. I was so freaked out about it and I asked my partner to get tested again in mid-July and it was still negative. I am going to get tested again in August, just giving it a three month period. But as for now, I am so scared of HIV and other STDs to the point that I cannot function normally. What could that recurring (twice) red bump be? I also have pains around my pelvic region. I had some burning sensation around my anus. But they eventually went away. I didn't have any painful sores like people with herpes usually have. but I am also aware that one can have symptom-less herpes. I am really feeling the fatigue everyday and I certainly don't eat as much as I use to. I have been to the doctor and got tested for all STDs, except for herpes, because you can really get tested unless there is a lesion. Help, please.
STD after cheating
It's probably nothing. If you've been tested and everything has come back negative I wouldn't spend a lot of time worrying. Most likely your loss in appetite and fatigue are from worrying too much. It's amazing what the mind can do.
it sounds like herpes to me. the next time you get a sore or even a small raw area, get to the doctor right away for a test.