Ahh nervousnesss

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i guess, but i think it just saays smosh, i dunno...i dont pay attention to that, i was too busy staring at his eyes

lol...

ther eis your conversation right there. ask him wut swosh is and then come tell me. LMAO (i'm nosey)

lol ok, but that has to wait till monday:P

alright, i thought i had to bring up this old post for this. ok, so this guy, this same guy, ive liked him for almost 2 years now. we've talked about it(i brought it up several times) and its always been a no. well this time, he approached me. yes. he likes me. however he said hes not ready for a relationship, but he said if i wanted to have sex he's down. so, he wants me. finally!!! and btw, the shakyness/nervousness came back 10fold. im seeing him tomorrow. im SO SCARED

He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, but he's fine with fucking you? Not sure how good that'd be for you, especially if you're looking for more than just a ride.

Yes, that's what I thought. From a guy, "I'll have sex with you provided there are no strings attached" isn't going very far towards a relationship.

i really dont care. you have no idea how amazing he is. and im pretty damn sure that he's gonna get attached. this, is awesome. im not really ready for a relationship right now either, though. so it works out

Well, as long as you're sure and that you're not just trying to convince yourself.

Originally Posted By: Celithrathienim pretty damn sure that he's gonna get attached. this, is awesome. im not really ready for a relationship right now eitherOh you're setting yourself up for misery here.You say you're sure he's gonna get attached. But you don't want a relationship.Ok?So what happens when he does get attached and you don't want a relationship? You're gonna tell him to go away? Unlikely.Or are you gonna be over the moon and accept him into your open arms with delight?But wait - didn't you say you didn't want a relationship? Ah I see, you actually do want one and were just trying to convince yourself that you didn't.See where I'm going?He has already said he doesn't want a relationship. Which means he gets to bang you, and if he finds someone better (which he believes he will) then you will get tossed out like yesterdays garbage.Now imagine how you'll feel when that happens. You'll probably try and say to yourself "it's cool. I didn't want a relationship anyway..."but you have already said:  Originally Posted By: Celithrathienyou have no idea how amazing he is.So you clearly have feelings for him.You're setting yourself up for heartbreak, because once you get closer you will fall in love, and he wont, and then he'll leave and crush your soul.We've seen this a lot on this forum...please don't set yourself up for heartbreak.

ok. i didnt say that i didnt want one. i said, im not ready for one RIGHT NOW. meaning, we can have fun for a while, explore, and see how things go. and i did talk to him about this a few days ago, asked if he'd ever want more than sex. and he said he's pretty sure. and an update, we didnt yet. but we have gotten closer.