okay, so My last board (http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=288592&page=0#Post288592)right, now if you read it, you know I broke up with my bf, and I was having troubles getting over him....Welll, Today was the first day Ive been to his house since we broke up (On the night of sept.1st). And we ended up having sex.And he asked me if we I wanted to be friends with benefits, or just friends.I said neither, and he said that he doesnt want to have a girlfriend, he wont tell me why. and its got me REALLY confused!So, I dont think having sex with him was the best thing to do after what happened to us, and I dont know what I should do about it anymore.I was just starting to get over him, and move on, but now Im not so sure.
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Oh no....
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....................? huh i even looked for some white text. lol maybe it's me but..what??
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sorry, it posted when I was in the middle of writing!! (((It stopped at the word "Board")))
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ok.. make much more since now.. lolwell.. i'm not going to say it is a for sure thing but when my older brother only wants to be friend with a girl and have sex with her he's got 2 or 3 more he's doing the same with. and tecniqally he isn't cheating cuz he's not dating any of them. he's acully doing that now. He's been seeing 2 girls (not in a dating / relationship way)
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Why did you go to his house in the first place? That's what I don't understand.Quite obvious that having sex was a really bad move. But honey, if he doesn't want to be with you, then you have to accept it and move on. I know you have feelings for him, but he (in my eyes) used you for sex.You deserve better. Just lay low and give time to yourself. You'll find someone better.
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I went to his house because I thought he finally got over being angry at me, and we where just gunna hang out.
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I won't say more than that but I still stand by what I said in my first post.
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Well having sex with a person you are trying to get over generally isnt going to get you over them any faster. But those things happen i guess. My advice is you should just stop seeing him. You want a partner he wants sex plain and simple. If i was you i would cut off all ties and just wait for someone worthwhile, but you are old enough to make your own decisions. Hope you make the right one.
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What did you expedct when you went over there?
I'm surprised you're surprised at what happenmed
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well..Im not really suprized. I was just wayy confused. lol.
It was weird, because 2 weeks ago he said he was so pissed at me, and now he doesnt care at all.And he said that he thought having sex with me would make me change my mind and be friends with benefits.
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Originally Posted By: Spiike66
well..Im not really suprized. I was just wayy confused. lol.
It was weird, because 2 weeks ago he said he was so pissed at me, and now he doesnt care at all.
I'm confused on how you were confused. If he was pissed enough at you that you both broke up, what made you think he would care about you now?Originally Posted By: Spiike66
And he said that he thought having sex with me would make me change my mind and be friends with benefits.
Thats pretty bad thing to do though.
Damn right that's a bad thing, even though "bad" is one hell of an understatement. The guy is a complete no-good douchebag. You deserve better, sweetie. Just cut him from your life and you're going to be much happier.