Psychopath?

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My soon to be nephew in law honestly has somethinng wrong with him, he has ALOT of the symptoms of a psycopathic child(Heres a site about it and hes has just about everyone of the syptoms listed http://www.crimelibrary.com/criminal_mind/psychology/psychopath/4.html), ive done some research about it, because hes really getting bad, but his parents(this is there first and only child), grandparents(havent raised a child in 20 years) and uncle(never been around kids execpt his nephew)think its no big deal but i have 5 neices and nephews and none of them act near as bad as him, i dont know what to do, if i try to tell my fiance(the chils uncle) he will just think I"M the one who needs help. can someones please help me with what do you? im really getting worried about about this.Heres a list of some of the things this child has done1.throws rock,metal toys and other things at people to try to hurt them and laughs when someone gets hurt2.trys to hurt animals(he's killed a bird)3.tried to shut a car door on my fiances head4.gets EXTREMELY mad and dangerous when he doesnt get his way(if u pick of one of his toys, he trys you hurt you by hitting,throwing things at you and other things)

How old is he? and when did it start?

this is gonna sound crazy....but hes 3hes been this way as long as he could walk

OMG.....its a real life devil child, well normally i'd say take too see a doctor but a 3 year old. I don't now much about this stuff its never been in my family sorry. Maybe he will go out of it but i don't some1 with more experience with this could help you sorry im no help 2 you.

its ok. thanks for trying :smile:

But i would like too add one thing, if he doesn't grow out of it then it needs to be sorted fast because chances it will start affecting every1 in your family ALOT, That my view.

yeah, thats what im worried about.

Sounds like a case for the Super Nanny!

Doesn't sound like a bad idea that, over here we have this super nanny on TV that helps with this stuff, give it ago.I mean a specalist in this field u have 2 try something its only gonna worse if not better.

its not my son though, its not even my ACTUAL nephew is my fiances nephew, if i tried to do something like that my fiance,his sister(childs mother)and the grandparents would all probably hate me or something

Then talk too his parents about it about get your fiance too do it. lol he doesn't have 2 go on TV u know.

if i talk to his parents they would seriously probably hate me. and my fiance would be very pissed about it too

Well they can't sit and do nothing can they something has too be done. If he does something else wrong just surgest the option of a specalist, i really don't see why they would get so upset.

I see two possiblities here, but they are just my opinions:1) The parents aren't being parents. He could be acting out and doing the destructive acts that you are describing because he hasn't been disiplined enough or hasn't been taught humility and empathy.2) There could be some neurological imbalance in his brain.No one can be sure unless you take him to see a professional. His family may hate you, but you are doing the right thing for this child. People tend to forget that parents are not raising kids, they are raising adults.

I agree that the parents should be getting a specialist's opinion. It may be a phase but it's disturbing. However, the best you can do, probably, is drop some hints to the parents.

woooow i gave some helpful advice for once now there a first, anyway can this be passed on like from parents like in DNA, genes maybe some up the family tree had it u never know could ask for some advice of they did

i dont wanna lose my fiance over this.btw the father has a temper but not a HORRIBLE one.

How can u lose him over this, i don't get it. So your all gonna sit back watch him turn into a complete monster?

we've argued over his nephew before and it didnt turn out well because he doesnt understand that his nephew has problems and YES i tried to explain it to him but he just thinks IM the crazy one

well he doesnt think im crazy he just thinks im blowing it all out of proportion blah