Psychopath?

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then he will see when his child end up doing more damage than he can imagin.

its not his child its his nephew

Well sooner or later they will all have sit up and take notice, but u tryed thats the main thing for you and maybe like ineligble said maybe drop some hints.

Mind your own buisness, it's not your kid.

But she cares enough too try and help and thats good enough in my book.

That's fine, but if a parent has an ass hole for a kid, odds are they know and don't know someone getting on them about it when they're probably trying to deal with it privatly, rather then have the whole family talk about it. It's their buisness, either way.

If you really did tell the parents and all those other things, you've done all you can.

dont be such a jerk im marrying the kids uncle and all i want to know is what the heck to do about dealing with the freakin kid(the parents arent doing anything about it and they arent going to) cause i am gonna have to be around him the rest of my life

Thats what i meant before if this is not sorted soon it will start efecting your life and it always by the sound of it and the kids only 3. Maybe you could just keep givin hints about it to his parents about the problem, he still might grow out of it so one half of this could be a waiting game but i hope not(if that makes).

yeah. ive dropped hints, but his parents are always saying stuff about how he acts and they just laugh like its no big deal, so dropping hints hasnt done anything .grr

Originally Posted By: StarWarsChick

Heres a list of some of the things this child has done

1.throws rock,metal toys and other things at people to try to hurt them and laughs when someone gets hurt
2.trys to hurt animals(he's killed a bird)
3.tried to shut a car door on my fiances head
4.gets EXTREMELY mad and dangerous when he doesnt get his way(if u pick of one of his toys, he trys you hurt you by hitting,throwing things at you and other things)

Do they know he had done thesethings

yes they see him do it all the time. and it was there bird that he killed(his moms the one who told me he killed it)

ive dropped hints, but his parents are always saying stuff about how he acts and they just laugh like its no big deal, so dropping hints hasnt done anythingIf dropping hints doesn't work, then confront them about it. Tell them it's a serious problem that needs to be dealt with NOW.Edit: At least ask them to get him checked out. If nothing's wrong with him, they should have nothing to worry about.

Well if this is the case your've done all u can do. You just have wait until they get the picture. Also do u like this child being around u like in your house do u look after him? If so maybe protest about him bein in your house or looking after him because u can't handle me. But other then that i just have 2 wait for his parents too sort them selves and there kid out.

no he doesnt come to my house. i go to his uncles(my fiances) house and he still lives with his mother(the grandma) and the child is ALWAYS there the grandma watches him every weekend (and i stay the night there on the weekends cause its the only time i really get to see my fiance because of his job) and hes there alot during the week too

Then u just have too wait and see what happends, sorry if its not answer your looking for. But u tryed your best so your an ok girl :grin:

you've made me feel alot better, thanks.

Im glad someones happy.....

I certainly think it is your business, especially if this is going to be your family soon. I would hope if my kids were being jerks, my brother/sister/friend/whatever would tell me! Unfortunately, this sounds like some really shitty parenting. And I don't think there is much you can do. The parents seem to be aware, but do not care. Don't worry though, once the kid gets into school his parents will have a rude awakening.

You are not! He's not living with you, he's going to turn 18 some day and move on to his own life, andif there is ap roblem he'll see someone about it. Bottom line is that he isn't your kid, and it's not your buisness to try and act like a parent to a child that's not in your stead. If they wanted help, they would ask.