still I hear her say.. [she] wants to end her life.-three days grace.Meh..... what do you do when you have someone you care for and your powerless to help them?
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Even if i say it'll be alright
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Hope for the best
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Get on with your own life.I don't mean ignore her, or make her feel worse, but you can't help those who won't help themselves. Cliche I know, but the worst thing you can do is let her drag you down with her.
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Although you never really know what you'll do until your in the position.. The first thing that came to mind was "charge him"
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and the first thing I thoth ws to take cover then shoot the mother fucker. Thats what concealed weapons are for, self defense and the defense of those htat cant defend themselves.some asshole witha knife ? charge him, some ashole with a gun, you cant do any good if you charge and get shot yourself. Someone with in inches of you? fuck it hit the bastard people make the common mistake of thinking a gun at close range is the be all end all, and its not, you need a few feet to really have time to do shit with a gun, even with one to the back of your head you have time to do SOMETHING that may or may not work, a few feet away? your fucked if they really want to pull that trigger on you.
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Hi well i know how you feel my gf has tryed to kill herself twice and almost succeeded. If you want some help PM me, but i wont talk about it here.
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Grvty I don't carry a consealed weapon.. yet... (one day).As to the fight scenerio. You are right for most of the cases.if they have a knife.. just break their fucken arm... if they have a gun it entirely depends on the scenerio, the gun, the distance, and the killer, your speed ect ect.If your dealing with a trained person then your fucked because they are going to keep the proper distance know the gun and not be affected by the charge.If your dealing with your average joe crack pot chance is he doesn't know enough about guns to effectively use whatever he has in the first place.. your going to stand a realistic chance assuming you are a blood thirsty mother fucker who understands the situation.Helms. I guess I really don't feel like I have a choice. I don't know why.... Yeah I could just turn away and stop talking to her.. but, thats not me. I could stop having anything to do with her.. but, thats not me. I think I'd feel worse if I stopped talking to her whether she does or doesn't....
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Do keep talking to her, if you can. Although she is responsible for her own life, that's something that you can do to help.If it comes to an immediate crisis where she is actually trying to take her own life at the time, the appropriate and well-established action, if you know her address, is to call the police.
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Agreed, she may hate you for it so be prepared, i know this from experience. But she will come round in the end.
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I don't believe there will be an immediate crisis for a while.. I think she knows it would affect alot of people..On the other hand.. you can never really see into a persons soul
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Quote: you can never really see into a persons soul No you can’t... and when you think it want happen that’s when it could.
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what do you do when you have someone you care for and your powerless to help them? cry for them and cry with them. let them know no matter what you are there for them.(and show / prove it)
p.ss. i kinda like that song. lol Riot is better tho. -
Lol that song does a pretty good job of explaining my situation.
I like the entire one x album..