At what point do major differences in a relationship cause trouble? And, is there any way around it? Especially when the differences are on a life style basis and one views the others developing ideals as idolitry, rather then a difference of philosophy. Are we just kidding our selves from the start if we think the major differences won't ever get in the way because it's natural human behaivor to create drama even if everything is fine? And what is there to be said for simply saying "There are THOUSANDS of different ways, and mine is as right as yours" why does there always have to be this imaginary line that people draw saying "This is how im doing it, its the right way, so you have to do it too" and how can someone who is so open towards EVERYTHING else be so closed to something small, especially when they're the kindest most caring person for everyone. /end ramble.