This is embarrassing but i need to see if anyone can help me and have any insight in what might be going on. I'm an 18 year old virgin female. when i masturbate (rub my clit) i get that strong feeling like im going to orgasm. i have read on here of others saying just keeping going if you have that feeling like your going to pee just relax and enjoy it. but when i do and keep going im not sure if it is pee/excess water or what that happens to me and comes out. sorry if there is to much detail.
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Female masturbation help
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im assuming you're one of the lucky ones who squirt. :P
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Ditto.
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really? because when it happens it puts off the orgasm feeling so i dont't really have a proper one. what actually is squirting?when i use a vibrator this doesnt happen so that's why im wondering if it really is squirting or not.thanks for the replies
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If you are TRUELY squirting then this clear liquid comes from the Skene's gland. Of course, it could also be urine if your bladder releases.
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I know that in men, we cannot ejaculate AND pee at the same time. I would THINK the same applies to women, but I'm not certain.
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thanks for the help so far. so its not sure that i'm squirting or what, its messy..so i'd rather not be able to do it, and dont understand why it doesnt happen with a vibrator
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_I would THINK the same applies to women, but I'm not certain. _
No it doesn't. Because urine and semen is ducted through the urethra in teh male, the prostate provides the channeling. In the female, there is nothing like that. The Skene's gland surounds the urethra but there is nothing there to close it off from the bladder.
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well if you really want to know, why don't you just get into a comfortable bath (with no water in it) and just aim to make as much mess as possible (and enjoy yourself!). once you're done, you should be able to work out if it is urine coloured, or by smell at least. this may sound messy but it should get you the answer once and for all?
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Thanks. yeah that sounds like an idea to see which it is. I kinda wish it didnt happen because when i get oral its going to be a bit messy haha
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i've been trying and i seem to think its my bladder releasing because i dont get the good feeling that should come along with it. this is really embarrassing and annoying. thanks everyone for helping out but if anyone else as any other info please let me know. i wish it didnt happen.
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from 7th grade sex ed the teacher said for both guys and girls you cant pee while being stimulated.
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well IF that is true, then it must be squirting right? but i do not get as good feeling..?
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i would just do wat tht lass said about get into an emplty bath..xur brave tlkin about this i like tht lol cht to me on PM
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ok..so its still happening. its stupid, there must be something wrong with me
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So you're a squirter... what's the problem?
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If it doesnt happen with a vibrator, thats probably because the vibrator is obstructing the flow? I'd think any squirting would be less noticeable with an object inside you.And if it doesnt smell (or taste, for some of you out there) like urine, it isn't urine. You're squirting.
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"Squirting" does not come from the vagina.
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i don't think its squirting. and i dont get that 'orgasm' good feeling just the stuff coming out and its over. doesnt squirting only usually happen when the g spot is stimulated? this is from clit stimulation. and in responce to the other posts about it not happening with a vibrator, it isnt actually being inserted.
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feeling just the stuff coming out From where?