hand job/blow job exsperiances..

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ok so this is just for good and bad and weird and funny exsperiances with hand jobs and blow jobs. so go go buffalo.here is mine i guess?ok so you know how everyone says most girls cant jake off there guy as good as the guy can to there self? well my GF can jake me off like better then i can my self. haha not cuz i suck at it or anything. just she is like reallyyy good. and im her first BF and she hasnt done anything b4 me. infact the first few times she sucked. but i showed her how to nicely(good communication) and a few times later she is now PRO. haha she makes me like "twich" she is so good. but ya idk why she is soo good. maybe cuz her hands are small and soft? idk. but its amazing. anyone got anything?

Dude, I think you know the answer...She's your gf...

Unless she hurts you - its better than u can do alone. And you showed her how u like it.

Q is - are you returning the favor?

helms,i've had to teach BJ 101...Good and bad there. I love my star students.I DID have a horrible hand job - from a girl who should have known better. The trick was, she was trying to make me happy - how could I tell her she was HURTING me?Ouch..

I might could have gone all day without hearing that.

i hate to say, I have been there too. I would like to think i';m cool, but it a really ugly old fat guy.

Not that there's anything wrong with that, just I'd rather have the offer from Paris Hilton. (We would not have to talk about teaching....sorry...was that bad...

HaHa!

Ha! That makes ALL the difference.

I don't have much experience (yet) in getting blow jobs, but I have yet to be able to reach my orgasim this way. It's like I feel really close but it just won't go all the way into a throbbing climax. I'm worried it's because I jack off so much and my poor little dick is used to the fast motion I can give it with my own hand. But I think if I can keep myself from masturbating for a few days and THEN have my gf do it, I might be soo sensitive and ready to finally cum that it will go okay. (I know my gf feels bad too that she can't seem to make me cum yet. I tell her it's okay, but I think the still fels bad.)

And some guys find that hand jobs and/or blow jobs just never take them all the way - but they are still enjoying them.

I'm glad you added that. My boyfriend's one of those guys. At the beginning of the relationship, it bothered me. But after time and talking about it, I got over it. He always enjoys it, especially when he doesn't expect it to happen.

Originally Posted By: Radeckl

Added what?

That they can still be enjoyed without orgasm?

Yes. :grin:

And I also agree with what YOU said. '-')b

Scott,It really IS the journey.I hate to say this, but I had a gf who was really close - but she had no skill. Beyone teh sex, we were way into each other, so this is not about disrespect...We decided, by god, that we were going to do it - she had no experience, and I didn't care. It was not a great evening. But eventually I came. It was not great, but the effort was everything. (It went way past the journey - I was actually hoping she could make me come)She learned what I liked, and it got a LOT better after that. Really. It's probably not your jo experience, or even her skills, it's also that it's a big deal. Get that out of the way and see what happens:)Just an idea. I think sex is always harder the first time with someone you care about them. Because you worry about the fact that you care about them, and this IS THE nasty. Kind of a shame that way, but the rewards are worth it.

worst kind of blowjobs? toothy ones. enough said.and to the guy who said he couldnt cum from blowjobs, try contracting your pc muscles a few times during, that might give you enough momentum. otherwise you could ask her to use her lips on the underside of your penis - so like a handjob with lips which might give enough friction or speed.as for handjobs, i think its true that no girls technique is as good as your own but then they dont know what they're doing feels like and haven't had years of practice id guess the same is true for us of fingering! Unfortunately for me my frenulum (the bit that connects your foreskin to your head on the underside) doesnt stretch or is too short or something so its usually painful to fully retract while erect..which can make a girls yanking down on it pretty painful.

I honestly cannot think of how a girl can go wrong (squeeze too tightly maybe). Everything done not by yourself feels so much better.