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Thank you for posting the pictures, I was curious to see whether there was truly an issue with you nose, or it was something you manifested in your own mind. And let me tell you, it's in your head because I honest think you are a very handsome young man. And no I am not just saying that to boost your ego, I truly think you are a handsome.I took both pictures and put them beside each other and I personally cannot see a huge difference at all. They are basically identical, only difference I really see is the “ball” of the nose in the second pictures looks SLIGHTLY “bigger”. Only thing I like better about the first picture, is your hair hehe wink.I know it’s easier said than done, because I myself am very critical about the way I look. My teeth are slightly bigger than normal and not perfectly straight. I’d love to have cosmetic surgery to have veneers done so I had the perfect smile. Facial I don’t think I’m all that attractive, and I’m tall and thin and wish I had more muscle so I didn’t look so damned lanky. But with that said I know these are the cards I was dealt and I just need to keep my chin up and know I’m a good person regardless what people think about how I look, because when it comes down to it they are the pathetic ugly people for judging me on something so superficial. Attitude plays a large part in how you’ll feel about yourself. If you dwell too much on every imperfection you are going to have a miserable depressed life. But I think what people don’t understand is that those imperfections are what makes us human and makes us dynamic. Hell often times those imperfections are what makes many people attractive, hell I’ll go as far as saying sexy. Imagine having the perfect body, could you imagine how boring that would be?? I personally want uniqueness. I know I probably wasn’t much help, and you probably won’t even believe me when I said I think you are handsome; I often don’t when people tell me the same thing. Keep your chin up and smile.

i think liek me wut u see of ur self is in ur head. to me u look normal. ur nose fits u. it's not bad like you claim.  Quote:There have been a number of people on this site who complain about how ugly they are. Then they put up their pictures, and they are not ugly at all. What is wrong is not their looks, but how they see themselves. Yea.. Wut pete said!  Quote: Imagine having the perfect body, could you imagine how boring that would be?? i don't think there is a perfect body. even someone seen as perfect to them (the rone beign seen not the one seeing) i bet money they think there are things wrong.

Yeah... the problem with your nose is all in your head. There's nothing wrong with your nose.

The bridge of your nose (where your eyebrows end in the middle) is wide, giving the appearence of a wide nose. Side by side the pics look identical, besides lil dimple like dents in both sides of the pic you like, the dents are less visible in the pic you don't like. I think you're trippin, man. You look fine. Why don't you become a martial arts fighter and then you'll always have a reason to have a stubby nose. Even just having the confidence that martial arts brings to your life will help greatly.

Are you kidding me? If I looked like you I'd be VERY happy with my appearance. You think you're ugly? Hell no. If you could just improve your self-confidence, there's no doubt in my mind that you can be hot and attractive like you say you want to be.Like everyone else here has said: It's DEFINETELY all in your head.And I guess what Pete said is true: Everyone whose come to this site saying they're ugly turns out to be quite handsome/cute.I could post a pic of me, you'd be very happy with your appearance. Trust me.

Quote: could post a pic of me, you'd be very happy with your appearance. Trust me. and if u were to u would see even you arn't as bad looking as you think too. i have seen you but that was a some years ago when u posted under in search. i dk how much you have change but you were not ugly then and i dought it now.

and if u were to u would see even you arn't as bad looking as you think too. Nice try, but I'm still not that great looking. But the difference between me and most other people is that I don't care how I look. If people will reject me for how I look, then I don't want to get to know those people anyway, simple as that.

That's how it should be!

I deal with many body imperfections everyday.I'm 5'4 and 17, my hair's shitty, i have dimples like crazy, and my shoulders are so broad that most of my shirts don't seem to fit just right.But none of that bothers me.Just my nose...i mean c'mon people, i don't think you can say my nose is skinny or pointy or nothing like that.It just looks like a ball on my face.Idk, its just something that's effected my life more than anything else. People have called me big nose, and people always comment me saying i look 'confused" and i think a thick nose indirectly causes that.And idk, see the 'style and look' i want to portray is like something scene/rockerish/emo but i think i have a face that looks very "jock-ish" and idk....ive always wanted a more thin straight nose because i just dont think i could pull off some scene style with what i look like now. I just feel like i was born looking different in the face than what fits me on the inside, and i just want who i am on the inside to show more.But why im mad over this is like i said, after my surgery my nose looked how i wanted for awhile, and i had a major confidence boost, and just by little changes that made my nose look more like my old one, like i was scared was gonna happen, im back into being depressed. Cuz like, i wanted my nose a different shape more than i was worried about the size, and well my nose is smaller now, and was a different shape too, but now the old shape seemed to form back....and i went through so much pain because of how i looked before....i just don't want that same look back again after i thought it was gone and out of my life....i was just so happy for awhile...

It just looks like a ball on my face.I don't know how many people have told you this already, but I'll say it again: It's all in your head. Your nose is fine, seriously.> Idk, its just something that's effected my life more than anything else. People have called me big noseAnd it seems this is the source of your warped mental image of your nose. Because people have made fun of your nose, you think it's a problem. Because of taht, you've convinced yourself you need to change your nose.How about this: Fuck what those people think. Who are they to tell you how your nose should be? I'm pretty sure you don't go around telling people that their legs are too short, or that their lips are too big, right? Wouldn't that be fucked up if you told them that, because who are you to tell someone else what they should look like?I actually have a great example, and I'm sorry I didn't think of it until now: I have big ears. That's a fact. You know what I say when people tell me my ears are big? I say "What do you want me to do about it?" and that shuts them up real quick. Every single time. You could try using the same response when/if people talk about your nose. But in order to do that, you have to accept that your nose is your nose, and there's not much you can do about it. Stop looking at it like it's a problem, and everything else will fall into place.> but now the old shape seemed to form backDon't you think this is a sign? Maybe your nose isn't meant to be any different than it's natural form?Lastly, I have a question for you, and I'd like for you to give a serious answer: In the last week/month, how many people have made comments about your nose?

its not that i think people notice my nose, its just the look i think it gives my face...And i get plenty of comments a month like "your cute i guess" or "your datable i guess" and i think just a different in how my nose looks could get me comments like "your hot"

its just the look i think it gives my faceExactly. It's the look YOU think it gives you, which is what we've been trying to tell you the whole time. Your nsoe is fine, it's just all in your head that it looks bad.Like you said, people give you compliments several times a month. Your nose has nothing to do with it. If your nose really was an issue, you think people would tell you that you're cute/dateable?

yeap because thats how people say "your ugly" in a nice way here.where i live, if some girl says "oh your just cute, not really hot tho", or "your datable....i guess" it means your ugly and they're trying to say that in a nice way....and thats the type of comments i mean...trust me i dont get any compliments....

Possibly you're hearing only what you expect to hear?

Lots of girls say I'm cute.I get a few "awwwww" sThat bothers me on a level, because I'm supposed to be a MAN! Raunchy and Musky and that Tim Taylor like grunting.But I'm a little short, proportionately skinny, and I always look like I'm 4 years younger than I am (except when I don't shave).After a while, you just have to take it at face value. "You're cute." so I'm not what I want to be, it's who I am. I can't change that.You're you, you can't change it. There really aren't many ootions here. 1. Let it bother you for no reason2. Accept it for what it is. You.

But have you ever thought that "you" shouldnt be predeterminded by what your look like?personally i think it should be the other way around.I dont think its right that my personality and self gets hindered in what i want to do and the live i KNOW i was supposed to live just because of the way i look.There's nothning "me" at ALL about the way i look.The only people who have the same personality as me is hot people.

My personality is only hindered by what I let stop it.If you want something, go after it. If someone has an excuse to tell you no, then that's their problem not yours.Your DNA dictated that "You" is what you look like. From what I've heard, you aren't that bad anyway.And beauty is speculative. Everyone sees it differently.Physical appearance has nothing to do with personality.I had a friend in school very attractive, had a shy personality, fun, very kind. I met a girl on the internet, I for a second thought I met my friend, they were exactly the same. I got a picture...she was... Not my friend. I'll say it that way.Are you telling me that my personality automatically makes me not-hot?If anything, I've found that "hot" people are selfish pretentious pricks who seem to think they're a step above normal people.Do you think you're better than me? Is that the idea you're getting to?

I beleive my personality is way better than anyone elses, its why i think i should be hotter, i beleive in myself probably too much on that part.But like, i know everyone looks different, but when your born with deformities and stuff, i dont think that can really be a "part" of you, its something that needs to be fixed in life. No one chooses to be ugly or hot, but hot is really the only look people want, no one wants to be ugly, same as no one wants to be deformed, so i see the two in the same category.I wouldnt get with a REALLLLY ugly chick any sooner than one with down syndrome. Of coarse, ill be friends with the ugly chick anyday, where i wouldnt someone with down syndrome. But dating wise, they're in the same category, and i know many people my age overlook ugly people just like deformed ones. Thats why i get overlooked by girls so much, i mean i have guite a few friends that are girls, but thats only because they're never the slightest bit attracted to me and feel comfy around me cuz of that. Being ugly with a good personality gets me friends, while those same friends go off and fuck other guys im so jealous of multiple times, and im left to be depressed again.

I'm not even going to respond to that. That has to be the most bigoted, discriminatory, and useless excuse I have ever heard.I would recommend you re-examine your decision that your personality is better than specifically dirt.You know what I see? I see someone who actually doesn't think they're ugly, but instead is making excuses so that he can demonstrate how much better than people he thinks he is. Then he finds excuses when people don't like him.People don't think you're physically ugly, and if you are, it doesn't matter. Your personality is uglier.

Honestly doubt your any different.Doubt you'de give someone with down syndrom/looked like they had it a chance either.The only reason anyone dislikes my personality is cuz im honest about my feelings unlike all the people who sit there and say "ide give a ugly person just as much as chance" when they know they wouldn't, don't, and never will unless they are already over 30 and have 4 kids.Love starts with lust, not love.Thats usually the case unless two really ugly people meet, who already know they're too ugly to find someone to have sex with, so they relate better to someone ugly and in the same boat as them.