How can I be more romantic? I'm sure lots of other guys have this question. My girlfriend, which is now questionable , said I'm not romantic enough.
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Being Romantic
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Do spontaneous shit just to show her you care.Flowers for no reason, moonlight walks, little notes left in unexpected places that say nothing more than, "I love you."Crap like that. The key is unexpected.
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A good, long, passionate make-out session; WITHOUT trying to stick your penis in whatever hole of hers is closest to you is a start. Hell, even just a make out session without your mind focused on sex at all.A nice massage (read a book or an article if you don't know how to do it) to some nice soothing music, maybe a couple candles. Make her nice and relaxed, and let her have a great nights sleep (If you do a good job at the massage, she'll be done for the night) Sex:Slow, controlled, keep your penis in check, lots of foreplay, kiss areas that aren't explored often (under the breasts, behind the knees,) caress her, touch her, 'float' your fingers over her body (Come within less than half an inch to her body; your body heat will be felt, and it should drive her crazy)..let her know you love her.Going out:This one is big; but maybe plan to go on a weekend trip, or to a concert/play she wants to see (Maybe one she doesn't even know about, look up some higher-end theatres) take her out for a great dinner, hit the show, and take her back to a nice classy hotel for all of the above (Hopefully indulging in sex; as I'm sure she'll want to make the night perfect for both of you)The big pointDon't just 'click' over into Mr. Romantic; you can't force it upon yourself, and she'll know something is up if you all of the sudden start acting this way. Do the small things first (As it has been said, flowers for no reason, make her dinner, love notes etc) and build up.
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what mine likes the best is if about 20 minutes before she gets home I toss her PJs in teh dryer and make the bed and turn on the electric blanket to preheat the bed.This however only works because shes on teh noon till 9 pm shift, after this week shes promoted to the 10 till 7 shift and Ill be forced to find something new
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Quote: The key is unexpected. unexpected and to not want or supect anything in return. can be anything really too.. getting her a little somthing or just holding her outside in the dark under a blanket (that's if it's cold)
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"...not want or expect anything in return."That's a good point. There's no better way to ruin a romantic little gesture than to make your partner think the only reason you did it was to get in their pants, or for any other reason.
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To all the men in this thread: Your wives and girlfriends are very lucky to have you.
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Yea? tell that to my ex...lol
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This might sound stupid but...I work at Borders and there is this amazing book that me and my co-worker (also a girl) were looking at. It's called 1001 Ways To Be Romantic.We both agreed that we would just melt if our men did these things (And they have Personally, I love unexpected things - some other flower besides roses. A picnic that my guy planned. Kissing in the rain. Me and my b/f like going to this cute little coffee shop near me. I dislike all the standard mushy things - Roses, Chocolates in a heart shaped box.Here's a link to the book:http://beta.bordersstores.com/online/store/TitleDetail?sku=1402210043You don't even have to buy it - just read it in the store.
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i was talking to radckel and we got to talking about sending flowers. while we were talking i had the sickist idea. and i am doing it. i started today tho instead of the first of the week. i started today cuz next tues is Christmas day. I bought a dozen red roses but she's not getting them all at once. she gets a rose everyday ..it's like a count down to Christmas.this morning she was just jumping up and down all exited. she really has no clu she's getting one tomorrow too but by Thursday she'll probably figure it out. But the on Christmas day instead of red am getting her a white rose. the grocery was out so i have to go to a florist tomorrow. I haven't decided what i'm going to do with the 5 red roses since i only needed 7 to count down. i'll either give her half a dozen Christmas eve or give one to my mom, sister, and aunts on Christmas day. wut i don’t like about giving them to my aunts is i have 3 aunts but then i got my uncle’s wives and I’ll fill bad cuz.. there like aunts. so i dk wut i'm going to do... my sister is going around sayign i wish i had a man that would do this for me and mom’s telling my dad he should take notes. LMAO she thinks it’s sweet. it would be a huge surprise to them if i gave them one of "Shannon’s" flowers for Christmas. Mom’s helping me keep them alive.... and there in her room kind of hidden from Shannon when she comes over. decisions... decisions...
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get 11 real roses
get one fake onegive them to her and i say "Ill love you until ever single rose here dies"
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You are so thoughtful.
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i dk.. i was worried for a while if we could keep all theses flowers alive. i have hit another bump today LMAO... cuz i spent the night with her last night i didn;t have her today;s rose with me. she's over now (but in the barn with mom and my sister) so.. i mean i just can't go.. here's your rose for today.. it's got to be... i dk.. it be a funny for her to open the door and see me with her rose in my birthday suite. LMAO but with my luck it wouldn't be her that walked in. lol i wouldn;t do that anyways. ok..yea i would but only if we were Alone...withc hewere not so..yea. ok sorry too much info here. nvm