Ah crap!

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So I was over at my "lovers" house (thats what she calls us, whatever floats her boat eh). She still lives with her parents and they weren't home. I didn't plan on doing anything sexual, but as I got up to leave she grabbed me and pulled me down. We started to make out a little, and pretty soon things were getting heated. I knew It was wrong but somehow my hand ended up in her pants. Well long story short her step dad caught us. I got out of there as fast as I could but I'm pretty sure he saw something. He didn't say much, he just turned on the light and told her to turn the TV down and go to bed soon.

I left soon after, and now I can't help but feel like a complete jackass. Her parents love me, now I'm pretty sure they are going to hate my guts. The thing that gets me the most, is that this is most likely going to drive a spike between our relationship which was going great. I don't believe how dumb I could be, I should have never taken it that far, I just wanted to make her feel good . I'm not really sure how I should handle the situation, and I don't think I'll be going back over to her house anytime soon.

Loads of parents realize that their kids are gonna do stuff.Ride it out, find out if she got an "earful" and see how it goes.Once you have the info to know if dad actually caught you guys, then worry about it. I would recommend watching out where you fool around.

How old are you guys again?

I'm 19, she's 18.

I agree with Pepsi. These things are terribly embarrassing when they happen, but the chances are her step-dad is just as embarrassed to have stumbled in at the wrong time, and nothing will be said.

Not so sure. Her step dad is pretty protective, and I'm sure one of us is going to get an ear full. I asked her earlier whether or not her step dad had talked to her, she told me he hadn't said anything yet, but that doesn't mean I'm out of the clear just yet. I feel like such an idiot, if I only would have left her house like I was going to do, none of this would have happened. I sure need to work on controlling my desires.

I say screw her one more time before it all ends

Damnit, would you shut up for once and stop telling everyone to fuck someone/thing before they break up with them? Not everyones relationship is based solely on having sex.Question (op)...I've been in a similar situation, unfortunately you're going to have to face it (if they bring it up) otherwise, try to be more discreet about it. When this happened to me, I wasn't actually allowed near my first ex's house for a year (I could park my car on the street and wait for her..oh joy)You really just have to take the BS that is dished out, and the consequences to follow. If she loves you, she'll still see you despite any restrictions placed upon her. That's all you can really hope for.Of course, if he didn't notice anything you're in the clear.

Damnit, would you shut up for once and stop telling everyone to fuck someone/thing before they break up with them? Not everyones relationship is based solely on having sex.Once again, you have no idea what you're talking about.If you browse thruogh the TC's posts and take a look at some of the other threads he's made, my previous post might make more sense.But I don't care if you know what I'm talking, since question? knows exactly what I'm talking about.Matter of fact, why don't you stop worrying about my posts all the time.

Originally Posted By: StillSearching> Damnit, would you shut up for once and stop telling everyone to fuck someone/thing before they break up with them? Not everyones relationship is based solely on having sex.Once again, you have no idea what you're talking about.If you browse thruogh the TC's posts and take a look at some of the other threads he's made, my previous post might make more sense.But I don't care if you know what I'm talking, since question? knows exactly what I'm talking about.Matter of fact, why don't you stop worrying about my posts all the time. Regardless of what posts I made, your still being a troll.

It's not the posts that you made, it's the things you were saying in your post.Just because you said them a while ago doesn't change the fact of what you did/were trying to do. I'm sure everyone else here has forgotten about it, but that also doesn't change the fact that it happened.Like I said, you obviously just need to bang her one last time before christmas.