What's going on?

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after my recent relationship wit a girl which was about 5 months ago, and it ended badly, i haven't had any sort of feelings for girls, its weird because i could never get my mind off girls before but now its just like ive totally lost love for girlsbasically no crushes,no anythingeven with girls i used to like

I think often when we've had a traumatic experience, our brain tries to shield us from it or similar experiences in various ways.Have you found you have been switching to guys, or no feelings at all?

id never go gay, no offence to anyone here that isjust no feelings for love at all (to girls)but i wanna change that somehow

If it's because of the trauma before, perhaps if you spent more time with girls your subconcious brain might come out of its shell again as it sees they aren't so bad.

thats gonna be kinda hard considering theres a rumor goin around that i said i wanted to fuck this one girl, everyone's like wtf and stuff (kinda hard to explain)

im still tryin to find out who came up wit it even tho i have a few in mind

It's probably not worth trying to find the source of a rumour. It's very rare that you can be certain about it. Does it mean the girls are avoiding you?

I had a similar experience. I went out with this girl about a year and a half ago, and it ended horribly, and i guess i was "heartbroken" (wasnt in love with her but i cant think of another word). So anyway i didnt date again until now (ive been in a relationship for around 2 months, and its the best of my life). But i was like yourself. I had no interest towards girls, no desire to date or anything, i even got to a point where i lost sexual desire towards them.I think it was just the traumatic experience as someone else mentioned. Now im happy as can be, ive met a girl that seriously seems like my other half. I think it just takes time and im sure you will find someone for you soon, you just need time to get over ur past relationship.Btw after my bad experience i pretty much kept my gaurd up until now, i wouldnt let any girls close to me and it took my 3 weeks to put my gaurd down for this girl even though i know she wont hurt me like my last girlfriend did.

kinda

Is there a girl you can tell how affronted you are by the rumours, since after your break-up you're keeping away from girls? If you choose the girl carefully, this will soon be known by all the others, who will do their best to lure you.

I've had a similar experience with my first and only relationship. I didn't feel the heartbreak or hurt or whatever it may be was worth the time since it was bound to happen anyway, but now, about a year and a half later, i'm fine with it, but I took the hurt in a really different and more extreme way, so I'm not saying you're going to be off dating for a year and a half. My reason was different - I thought dating was useless anyway because it was going to end up in breakup so you can see that it really isn't the same thing. I think what you need to do is what Ineligible said: spend more time with girls to get your mind realizing that they're not all bad and it was just one of an uncountable number that hurt you.

theres a few but i doubt that theyd care

thats basically wuts happenin to me, kantonsuittonits worth a try i guess