I've fallen big time for a girl in my class at uni we get on great and on a couple of nights out with other friends we have had a great time... the only problem is she has a boyfriend who she hasn't been seeing long only a month or two... i'd have given up hope but her friend keeps telling me she'd like to go with me and when of my mates asked what she thought of he said she told him that she really liked me and would go with me in a second if she wasn't with this other guy she even said i was nicer than him... so basically i'm a bit stuck should i try and make something happen because i can't stop thinking about her... any advice would be great
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She has a boyfriend
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sorry just realised i posted this in the wrong place should have been relationships
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This is good as any place to post.I think, about all you can do is let her know, whether by talking to her or through your or her friends, that you would like to get with her but she has to loose the current boy friend, short of that it's a no-go. Unless of course your cool with having an affair with somebody that's partnered up. Take it from me. it's the shits when you get caught. So don't do it.
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I've moved it. :smile:
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As OldFolks said, you should tell her how you feel and let her decide on what to do. I wouldn't suggest having an affair, it gets messy and if the two of you actually got together after then you'd know that she was capable of cheating on you too. It'd just be better for your own mind to wait til she's single.
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Originally Posted By: bobalicious I wouldn't suggest having an affair, it gets messy and if the two of you actually got together after then you'd know that she was capable of cheating on you too. UH huh! I couldn't trust a man (woman) if they cheated.....
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I guess I will tell her like I suppose its better to know for sure than trying to guess... it just might get awkward as hell if she decides to stick with her boyfriend, lol, I guess you only live once can't be having regrets
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Might turn out awkward, might turn out great. Ya won't know til you try. Good luck.
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definetly tell her how you feel. But don't pursue anything further if she doesnt feel the same way. Sometimes friends can be assholes and drag the truth rather than hurting your feelings.