I can talk to girls and stuff, like as a human being, but I don't know what to do if I like one. I never know how to act or what not. I'm a senior in high school and I have interest in some of them and I want to get to know them better to see if they are right for me but I don't know how to talk to a girl at all. I don't even know where to begin. Can someone please help me?
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I Don't Know How to Talk to Girls.
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With me it starts with just normal chit chat, and "getting to know each other", such as "whats your favorite color" "oh you like that sport to?" etc etc. Then as you start to talk more and feel more comfortable it turns into a friendship, and you start to talk more regularly, and after that you may start to talk about more serious stuff etc, "feel a connection" and what not, and take it to another level.Thats how i like to do it atleast. I like to get to know the girl and be friends before jumping into a relationship, that way i can see if she is the kind of person i connect with as a friend or as a girlfriend.
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Well, I'm good at talking to people in general, I just don't know how to move into the talking mode where you like flirt with them our whatever. I mean, I need a step-by-step instruction book on how to do this, because I'm not lying when I say I really do suck at it. I've only had 1 girlfriend and that lasted a month. I want to know how to talk to girls and get them to start hanging out with you more and stuff. I also see guys in my school just randomly hugging girls and stuff or girls come up and talk to them. That doesn't happen with me. I want to get to that stage and stuff.
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Generally, trying too hard, or using an instruction-book approach, doesn't work because it doesn't sound natural. Don't feel you have to copy someone else's style - it may not suit you at all.
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I see what you are saying, but I've always acted myself, and I've never really had any conflict with anyone. I'm not saying I need an instruction manual; I was just using that as a metaphor as to how badly I need help. I just need some tips on how to work with chicks, like how to move forward in a relationship from a classmate to a friend to a good friend to a boyfriend.