How to get around this...

JRCMR

My girlfriend and i have had sex a couple times now, and every time we do, I don't cum. It's not because there is something wrong with me... it's just that it hurts her to continue to have sex... We start off great. After a while she cums... then IF we continue she tells me that it is hurting her...Is she doing this on purpose or if i am hurting her is there a way around it??? She always grabs her lower stomach so I think i might actually be hurting her...

I think i am avarage .. i'm not big or anything so i don't see how i could be causing damage... My ex girlfriends almost never had any problems like this...

Sex with her is always short... I was used to having sex for a while but she is done and wants to stop within 5 or 10 min...

Its just starting to get to me... and I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings...

CR125

I think you should talk to her. Hurt her feelings or not. I don’t think you would tho. My gf used to hurt after sex and she told me. It Didn’t hurt my feelings.. It just made me want to fix it. I don’t want to hurt my gf. I mean if she’s going to hurt every time we have sex she’s going to end up not enjoying it. But with Shannon she didn’t hurt during (except for her first few times) but more at the very beginning and after. We changed added more lub and even changed lub… still a little after wards she said it kinda still hurt. I did all that I was advised to try. We were at this I dk wut to do. Stage. She Don’t know and I told her I didn’t know wut to do and she told me that when I went easy it was better. I think it’s my size. I don’t like talking about my size… but it’s my girth.. it’s all I can figure out for it to be. We know wut works for us now. We start slow and easy and let her get used to it or wutever it does…. And she tells me more.. ( It took me a time or two to figure out wut her more meant) and when she’s says I’m ready….. The bed gets rocking. But we had to talk to figure out wut works for us (well her) and we had to try things to figure out wut works…… so yea.. I’m willing to do it her way so she want hurt during or after.