I'm forced to make a new topic because Helms (like he always does) locked the other one.pink: youre an asshole And what was that for? I'd love to hear it.Helms: ...and funny, you didn't say the same thing to your little buttbuddy StillSearching after he basically said the same thing to another member.Maybe he didn't say anything because he realized the person I was saying it to (8letters) was making a smartass remark to me.
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I agree with you, SS. What happened in that thread was really uncalled for.8letters and Pink: You were both being condescending.Radeckl: I'm glad you think the poetry was great but you didn't have turn it into a win/lose thing by saying you "admit defeat". SS has every right to have a different opinion on that poem as you.Helms: I know you can do better than that. Whatever happened to being tolerant?
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I went to that thread. I do think that SS was being an ass, but still has a right to voice his opinion. so I don't think it should have been locked.
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I like each of you as seperate people... I haven't personally talked to most of you, but I have talked to SS... if you can get past what his life has been and understand why he did some things he did... he's not that bad... I've learned from SS.I think what Helms said was a bit extreme because I personally care about anyone that has gone through anything like me. SS is a great guy if you give him the chance... so why doesn't everyone just let him have that chance and not just hit him while he's low...
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Quote: Nobody gives a shit about you, what you think or what you post.And why do you have any position of power on this forum? You're a Moderator, wonderful, go moderate! But to say to someone who has a very deep depression (on a site thats meant to try help people like him) that nobody gives a shit about him??I say again: How the fuck are you still a Moderator?? I'm glad that they removed you as Admin but they shouldn't have stopped there!Hmmm, I wonder if you're gonna "bounce" me...
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I called you an asshole to see how you'd react?Its ok for you to call 8letters an asshole.. but no one is allowed to call you one?Trust me.. if i were to call you something.. it wouldnt be asshole.. it would be much much worse
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language people language!it's 2008 you guys are not off to a good start. kumbaya! kumbaya! lol
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Go fuck yourself Helms. When someone else lashes out at people, they get dealt with (example: SS getting his cooling off period). But when the hell is someone gonna deal with you, the bigoted prick who thinks he owns the place.
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bobby you're on time out! go in the corner or I'll whip you!
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Well excuse me but you guys aren't the only ones who are getting sick of some of the people here.
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you should try ignoring them bobberzz
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Ignoring problems doesn't make them go away.
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true, but it's not worth your time and it will only make you more upset.
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I'm not upset, I'm frustrated. I've been frustrated with this board for a while now. We have a big group of Mods (9) who are never here, and the only one who is here on a regular basis is too emotional to be left on his own. A Moderator has a job, a voluntary one but a job none the less. They should be impartial and make objective judgements, not personal ones. They can give their opinion but they should not be allowed to rip into anyone, especially here on this forum where the purpose of this site attracts many emotionally unstable people.A Moderator is a representative of the forum. If a new member comes along and sees a Mod insulting and ridiculing members, how could they be expected to open up to us?
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and the only one who is here on a regular basis is too emotional to be left on his own.
actually both ineligible and sdp are here on a fairly regular basis as well as Ntro,with the exception of recently, on account of illness
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I'm here more than anyone knows. The only one who sees me is Ineligible.
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Originally Posted By: Dantekactually both ineligible and sdp are here on a fairly regular basis as well as Ntro,with the exception of recently, on account of illness Yuppers I'm here A LOT more than people realize. And now that I am over being sick I'll certainly be here more. When it comes down to it people REALLY need to think before they post. People here are so easy to lash out at each other. I hate the fact we have members who are to scared to post because they are afraid of getting torn to shreds. The boards have seriously been quiet since the move, and I think we'd all be foolish not to admit that a lot of the quietness is do to a lot of the petty fighting and ripping people apart.Simple put, people need to grow up and start acting their age and not their show size. This is supposed to be a helpful community, and I haven't seen a whole lot of helpfulness from several of the members of as lately.
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I'm on here a lot, too
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I'm here much more than most people think... I don't always post, but I'm usually lurking around somewhere :smile:
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Gotta add my thoughts in here too - I think most of the mods are on here all the time. I come on every single day before I go to work, then if I have the time I will be on in the evening for a while too. I tend not to post much any more as I am feeling uncomfortable with the way the board has changed, and not altogether sure about the way members are acting towards eachother. I don't want to offer any advice that is not my genuine opinion, but also do not want to offer anything that is not objective and will therefore be torn apart.It's a sad way for a (once upon a time) loving and friendly board to have turned!