As the topic title implies, I would love to know the answer to this. I'm 17, and I've been dealing with this issue ever since I learned that yes, there are great feelings that can come from the penis, but no, I can't feel them because mine's "too tight."At this time, I can't really move the foreskin over the head at all. I've never even seen the head before. There are only a few times, when I get an extreme erection (not trying to sound funny, it's just all I could think of) and I can look into it sort of, but the "hole" so to speak is too small to be pulled over the head (glans?)With that being said, I haven't masturbated ever, and I would really like to. I always read about these awful cases involving other people who can't have sex because their foreskin won't retract, but then they say, "I masturbate just fine," and they never explain how. Finding someone in real life to talk to about this is even more difficult, because doctors are all too ready to snip. I'm not concerned about sex. I just want to masturbate. Can anyone describe, in detail preferably, how you masturbate without pulling the foreskin over the head of the penis?edit: Oh, and thanks in advance.
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How do you masturbate with a tight foreskin?
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You appear to have phimosis... Although you can masturbate as is, you really should be working on stretching your foreskin... Please read the Foreskin Stretching thread and then come back with questions.
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Thanks for the replies. I appreciate the bluntness of this message board; it's better than most doctors who tend to beat around the bush and then sugarcoat things.In any case, yes, I suppose I really ought to go see a doctor of some sort. I'll probably ask about it during my next physical. They're just so annoyingly closed minded. Once, I brought in pages of documentation regarding the snip happy doctors, and all he said was, "well you'll probably need a circ." I literally brought in pages of alternative methods, including stretching routines and that steroid ... stuff, and he just flat out ignored it. I really can't stand that guy, or his office. I have read the page about stretching, and I do plan on trying it, starting this week. I just hope it works. x_x;Again, thanks for the replies. It means a lot.
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I have a really short frenulum and have found humping a pillow works really well.
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i'm uncut with a tight foreskin. the skin retracts for sex (after i reach a good level of precum), but it isn't loose enough to slide back and forth during masturbation and sex.
during sex, i peel it back and it stays until i have to forcibly pull it over the glans.
since my foreskin is long, i masturbate it by keeping the foreskin on the entire time and stimulate my glans through it. been doing it for years. :smile:
BTW i'm getting circumsized this summer.
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Hi thereYour situation is just like mine was when I was in my teens. I first masturbated myself to orgasm when I was 19, and I'm sure it was my tight foreskin which stopped me from discovering the pleasures of masturbation much earlier. Let me assure you that masturbation with a tight foreskin is perfectly easy and highly enjoyable.I suggest you try by grasping the outer skin of your penis in your closed fist, and rhythmically sliding the skin up and down. You should position your fingers so that they can apply some pressure to your glans through the foreskin as you rub. It doesn't matter too much that you can't uncover the head, as it responds almost as well to being stimulated through the foreskin, and of course the foreskin itself is highly erogenous. Once you have experienced the fantastic feeling of your first orgasm, you'll be doing it every day, believe me! You will also be able to experiment with different techniques to find what gives you most pleasure.My foreskin was also extremely tight, like yours. If I pulled back hard on the skin, the opening stretched to about 5-6mm across, so I could just see a tiny bit of my glans, including the slit, but it was quite impossible to uncover any of the glans.Sex will probably be OK for you as well. I believe that those who suffer pain are those whose foreskins will partly retract, and the thrusting during sex pulls the skin further back that it will comfortably go. If your skin won't retract at all, there should be no problem - at least that's what I found.Having said that, I think it's worth trying to stretch your foreskin, as that will allow even greater pleasure, as well as proper cleanliness. In my case, stretching didn't work, and I often suffered from itching under the foreskin, and I sprayed everywhere when I peed, so I eventually got circumcised. I can tell you from my experience that masturbation with a tight foreskin is easier and more pleasurable than without a foreskin, so circumcision really should be a last resort.I hope this helps, and please let us know how you get on.