Ugh, I'm at it again? Another guy? Woohoo!Dating for a month, that's good. We're official and everything. /cheerThough, I feel I pushed him out of the closet, when I know that I really didn't, I still can't help but feel guilty for bringing it up so much... When we first met, he had only JUST told his Aunt and Uncle, and they were sworn to secrecy, and I had known... We started hanging out moe and more, always at night though. Naturally we began to accumulate feelin for one another, considering since it was at night it was more like a date than it was hanging out... Lalalala, his uncle outed him to hs hole family, that jerk, and he feel into a depression that caused him to not want to talk to anyone, because he wasn't recieving any support from anybody but me. But, he was ignorng me, my texts, my calls... Everything. He would apparently "break" his phones, which is understandable since he was angry. I still felt he should have tried harder... Is that selfish?I had a nice long chat with him the next time I saw him, I told him that if he needed anyone to talk to about anything, at any time, I was there for him and I meant it. I told him that I knew exactly what he was going through, that it would eventually get better and I don't think he believes me. Regardless, I told him alot of the things that were bugging me personally about his situation and he agreed, telling me that he would try harder, that he did not want to lose me- Because if he did, this all would seem like it was for nothing. That was so cute to me... I just saw him, he was coming back into town... I've not seen him in a week... He called me and asked if he could stop by, just to give me a kiss... Awwwwh, so cuuute. I said "Of course!" and he stopped by, I now smell of his cologne and it's intoxicating, simply amazing.I didn't really have a question, just letting you all know where I'm at finally. Considering I have posted alot in the Relationships subForum before.
It's all good. I hope this one works out a little better for you. It's a difficult time in life to be dealing with all of that. I suggest just being there for him and support him thru this time. I wouldn't suggest putting demands on him or pushing him out to your level. let him do it on his own.I'm here for you if you need some non biased advice.-Take care man!