Do you prefer a Big Dick or Performance in Bed?

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This is just a question: What is more important to you, a big dick with little performance (say busts in 2 minutes), or someone average sized who is really good in bed?

I'm a guy but I think the answer for most any girl is pretty obvious..... performance.

Actually i'd say, and this isnt from my personal opinion but from what i've experienced with the 30 sumthin women i've been with...

the way that i have sex is, i work my way and let them stretch and get accustomed to my larger size, and once i feel and see that its not hurting them so much, i ask them, when do you want me to cum, and sometimes they say now. or they say, not now. it depends on the women entirely...

i had a few girls, about 7 who wanted me to fuck them till we died of hunger, they just wanted to orgasm over and over and over and juss continuously.

i had about 13 who i asked as they were cuming, and they loved the feeling of us cuming together as one, or damn close.

there was 8 who wanted me to continue going for about 6-10 more orgasm's for them and then cum together.

and the last two and my current girlfriend, they told me cum when i felt i wanted too (i never feel satisfied unless i know they are, so i normally wait it out for 4-5 orgasms for them.) and then i cum... but what makes them different, is after i cum, i normally have like small muscle spasms in my lower body which causes my penis to jerk up and down, so they will continue rocking there hips, and moving me inside of them...

if i had to say advice wise, about women and this question...

they dont really care, unless they REALLY enjoy sex, they'll prolly be cool with an orgasm. as long as you took the time and cared for them properly.

and u CAN make a girl cum in less than 2 minutes with a big dick. if u cum really fast, then u better make EVERY second count...

or you better learn to be multi orgasmic....

Ummm, I'm sure that SDP knows how to pleasure his wife.Anyway, OP, I think most women prefer performance over size. I certainly could care less about size.

i apologize, i didnt realize i had clicked on sdp as the reply person, ill make a personal note to be shure and look at who im responding to. my post was to the OP and not directly to sdp sorry lish...

Boy that was a lot of unnecessary info for a simple question.

Lol, indeed. Seemed to me to another opportunity for him to brag.To the OP: Like sdp said, the answer is obvious. There's no real reason for every guy has to have a huge wang. That only matters in porn.

You read my mind.

yet AGAIN virtual star finds a way to get my advice and flip it around...What seriously bothers you star? is it that i go into depth about what i write and try to give the OP a little more INSIGHT into the subject, then just being a mindless zombie who likes to insult othe- no im not gonna even say others, imma say, me...i CAN give a simple answer and i DID the rest of the information there if for comparison for him, if X amount of women want to have a ton of orgasms which n terms want a bigger "shlong" and x amount of women just want to enjoy the exstacy of being with there partner, you can figure that x over 100 and x over 100 when compared can show you which percent is higher and therefore more likely to happen...if i wanted to boast, why would i do it in the female genitalia? its not like im going to meet any of these women, at least on the male i could do eviler things.now leave me alone star! try NOT insulting me for once, or try being NICE about your constructive criticism...a good old, "you got a bit off topic there, or you went too much into your personal life, he just wants an opinion man." woulda been more than satisfactory!bye

It's nice to see you again too. :grin:

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is it that i go into depth about what i write and try to give the OP a little more INSIGHT into the subject
No. What I read was you (again) saying how many girls you screwed around with. It was a simple question; bigger penis or performance. Your experiences did nothing to answer the question.

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if X amount of women want to have a ton of orgasms which n terms want a bigger "shlong"
Bigger penis doesn't mean more orgasms.

The G-Spot is about three inches into a women, and curved upwards on the bladder wall, so, in theory, All woman want a 3 inch dick, with a "Power curve" We'll call it. All the extra length in the world is a disadvantage, and women can't feel it anyway because we have no nerve endings much past the opening. Also, I feel this is worth mentioning. No woman wants a man that lasts for too long, I'd almost prefer a shorter actual sex span, because most women orgasm before the sex begins when you're playing with her clit.

Amen to that! You are so wonderful.

Stop trying to tell us women what we like and what we prefer....you do that alot.

I think any woman who's had crap sex with someone with a big penis, great sex with someone with a smaller penis, and great sex with someone with a big penis will tell you that the latter is the most enjoyable option. Having said that, of these three options, crap sex with someone with a big penis, is far and away on the lowest rung on the ladder here. Now, as for crap sex with someone with a small penis, that happens for performance reasons, truly, not because of penis size. Some of the best sex of my life was with a man whose penis could scarcely have been 5 inches long. So yes, a nice size is an added bonus, but performance is by FAR the more important element here.

I'm a bit shallow when it comes to sex, i love big dicks, but not so much that they kill me. ive had some good times wth average guys, and a few times i had sex with big guys, it was pretty much rape;painfull and scary; i think around 6 inches who knows how to make you feel good is best.

sry for making it seem like i was telling women how they feel and such, didnt realize thats how you gu- well... girls would feel about that...just in my experiences, cause i started having sex with an average size penis, and im still having sex with a now larger one. i've noticed that her sex drive will is alot higher, and she feels alot more satisfied after were through then when i first started...all i gta say is whatever, im exhausted, yall right...i mean maybe its not that my dick have gotten bigger or not, but maybe i've juss learned a few more tricks of the trade or somethin....

Did I hear a horn?

My thoughts exactly...

how the fuck do girls orgasm that much? 6-10 times? my girlfriend never orgasms more than once

You're not as good a GPYM... He's a stud.