So if you read my other post, you'll know what's going on. I've been talking more to her, and trying to make her laugh. She's been talking to me too. I think I'm doing good. We sat next to each other at work today and she even let me hear a song she was listening to. I know it's just small stuff, but it's still nice. My biggest worry is saying something that will make her uncomfortable, we do work around other people so.... What kind of things should I say or do that might give her a hint (slight hint) that I like her? I don't want to be too obvious or aggressive. I don't even know if she likes me that way. Are there any lesbians/bisexual females here? Your insight would help.
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The Girl at Work....Again
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Ha.....Ha.....Ha......
She'd probably make the face she always makes and ask me what I was doing.Seriously, I'm fine -- a bit confused, but I'll be okay.
Come on ladies...
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I'll keep it up, I (secretly) hope it works.
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I think you should just tell her. In my experiences, women are more....shy about making the 'first move'. We tend to play these little games, whereas a guy will flirt with you and then come over and buy you a drink or ask you out right away. It's definitly different than flirting with a guy. My last girlfriend (years ago) and I 'flirted' for a long time before we ended up together because we both weren't sure how the other felt. We got to be really good friends and finally one day I just said, look, I like you and I think you are sexy. And I want to know if you feel the same way. She got a big smile on her face and said she did and it was such a big relief!
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Quote:but couldn't you make a "V" with your index finger & long finger and make flicking motions with your tongue in the lower portion in her direction? Not real subtle but effective, Iv done it numerous times, in fact I do it to Julie all the time even today.
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It's awkward...we're at work. I don't know if she's seeing someone. I'm not good with guys or girls. It does help when they're nice, friendly, and easy to talk to.I think I might have been flirting with her today, I'm not sure. We talked longer than usual and for a while we were alone together. I think she knows I like her. I am good at making her laugh. Today she was playing the song "Kiss, Kiss" on her phone and I told her I hated it because Chris Brown can't sing so then she switched it to "I Wanna Know" by Joe. Could it be just a coincidence or was she trying to tell me something? I'm probably readching, but....
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Because I'm scared. If it's positive I won't know what to do, if it's negative I'll be hurt.Then there's things I'm not ready to admit to myself.