Okay, my girlfriends all paranoid about sexual stuff. Anyways, the furthest we went is just me sticking a finger in her vagina and going back and forth couple times and she starts hurting and I pull out. Anyways long story short, she saw this website saying how if the male touches his precum and sticks the finger into a girls vagina, it can cause pregnancy but its low risk. problems I see why this cannot happen:a) how is it possible the precum comes right out and i touch it and shove into her vagina instantly because cum dies in 20 seconds right? b) her period is usually around now, but she says its been 2 days now and max it has ever been is 2 days, but also shes really stressed recently about school. maybe thats the reason?c) I'm almost positive that i didnt use the same hand for touching my own penis and her vagina. questions:If it doesnt come within the few days coming, what should i do or she do? easiest way possible without parent notifciation because we are both 17. Thanks for reading and if she gets a baby because of this i will be PISSED CUZ we didnt even have sex yet.
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Did i get her pregnant?
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Quote:a) how is it possible the precum comes right out and i touch it and shove into her vagina instantly because cum dies in 20 seconds right? I don't think precum can "die" because it isn't sperm. But precum can contain sperm. How that happens is you ejaculate earlier before and get aroused later. Your precum may pick up sperm cells along the way. You can solve this dilemma by using the bathroom after you ejaculate. Quote:b) her period is usually around now, but she says its been 2 days now and max it has ever been is 2 days, but also shes really stressed recently about school. maybe thats the reason?I have no idea what you said. But I'll make an ass out of you and me and say her period is late two days. If that's so, then it's not a big deal. Calm down and wait a bit more. If she's late more than a week, then get yourself a pregnancy test. Quote:c) I'm almost positive that i didnt use the same hand for touching my own penis and her vagina. Then chances are pretty much zero.I can pretty much say you're in the clear zone. Just relax, tell your girlfriend to relax, and her period should come. Give it time. Periods are known to be wacky.
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_cum dies in 20 seconds right _
Depending on conditions sperm can live up to 5-7 days inside the vagina and .5 to 4 hours outside.
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Yeah, her period is late by 2 days now. I was talking about precum i read somewhere it only lasts up to 21 seconds out in the open. Anyways, where do you think i should get a pregnancy test with her besides those clinics.. would those testing pregnancy sticks sold at pharamcy stores work? As, she is shy especially to doctors and about this stuff.
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Yeah, you can get them at any drug store, like Walgreens.
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Pregnancy as a result of using a finger that may have traces of precum on it is very unlikely. The amount of precum transferred would be very small, and precum at most has only a relatively small number of sperm picked up on the way out. Of course one should be careful, and wash and dry hands if they may have precum on them, but we really are talking about very low probabilities.
Stress can delay a period by a week, so two days late isn't unusual. But a pregnancy test would be useful to ease your girlfriend's mind.
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Not to add anything to what's already been said but to hopefully help put your mind at some level of ease, the probability of pregnancy from what you have describes is very, very, low.
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I was talking about precum i read somewhere it only lasts up to 21 seconds out in the open. Just to clarify, "precum" is only a sticky slick fluid. There is nothing in it to last or die. Sometimes, however, there can be sperm in it. But the 21 seconds thing is nonsense. If the sperm remains moist and at the right temperature it can last up to 4 hours.
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So in other words, if ya don't want to get your mom pregnant don't leave spooge on the toilet seat. Sorry, this was just begging for a Randall reference.
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Okay good news, she got her period today and that means she not pregnant hopefully! i woulda been so pissed off if she got pregnant and we didnt even go through sex yet.
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I wouldn't be angry about that.. The loss of a good future and then the stress of the situation coupled with explaining to everyone you know...The benefit is you could have lots of sex without much worry though..I say this outcome though is highly more preferable.
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I know I read somewhere that even though only 1 sperm actually fertilizes an egg, it takes an enormous amount of sperm for a pregnancy to actually happen. I thought it also said that if a man's "samle" has something like less than 50,000,000 sperm in it, he's considered "infertile".So even thought anything, I guess, is possible, I think that if only a drop of fluid or less actually gets into the vagina that the chance of pregnancy would be small. (I think I also read that the very first "squirt" contains the most sperm, and the rest of the squirts flush it all out with a lot of cum fluids from the prostrate.)
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It only takes one! the more thas injected the more the odds go up of having a baby, but even after I got my nuts cut and jerked off in a cup for testing 6 weeks later, they were very concerned because they found 13 living sperms in my sample. I still couldnt fill her up till I got a zero sperm count weeks later.Also I swear its true, the worst time in your life to get pregnant, financial, age, school, what ever the reason, that is when youll be having an unplanned baby.