I've been going out with my boo for a while now. And it's been incredible. Never felt this way before. We've had our moments but he's not an argumentative person. I absolutely love him. But anyway, ever since I started going out with him my guys friends have been acting absolutely ridiculous. Especially my closest ones. He doesn't treat me badly but he's like... doing the most retarded things to get my attention. He treats my girl friends like crap but then talks to me like they're not even there. I don't know what his problem is. And he's ALWAYS taking off his shirt. Now he is major sports guy. Ice hockey, football, soccer, etc. And I've seen his body numerous times and oh my goodness he's unbelievably hott. I won't deny that. And before I was going out with my boo that was always a weakness for me because he was so kind, funny, and down to earth. But now it's like he's using it against me. I don't know what's going on. He's NEVER said that he likes me. never. I never liked him like that either. He's really a brother to me and I a sister to him so I don't know what the problem is.
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Males are ridiculous!
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Guys are only here to look pretty and be eye candy to us girls. Intelligence was sacrificed. Just kidding, dudes. As for your guy friend, maybe he just wants more attention from you or is trying to turn you over to the dark side.
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarGuys are only here to look pretty and be eye candy to us girls. Intelligence was sacrificed. Just kidding, dudes. If only, then there'd be more girls at Caltech :-(
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I know when my partner is with his friends, I want to have more attention off him. Have you brought it to his attention that it's irritating you?
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It's not my boyfriend that's doing it. It's my best guy friend. And I've asked him why he's doing it and he just goes "I have no idea what you're talking about". liar...
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Originally Posted By: JapanFan14I've been going out with my boo for a while now. And it's been incredible. Never felt this way before. We've had our moments but he's not an argumentative person. I absolutely love him. But anyway, ever since I started going out with him my guys friends have been acting absolutely ridiculous. Especially my closest ones. He doesn't treat me badly but he's like... doing the most retarded things to get my attention. He treats my girl friends like crap but then talks to me like they're not even there. I don't know what his problem is. And he's ALWAYS taking off his shirt. Now he is major sports guy. Ice hockey, football, soccer, etc. And I've seen his body numerous times and oh my goodness he's unbelievably hott. I won't deny that. And before I was going out with my boo that was always a weakness for me because he was so kind, funny, and down to earth. But now it's like he's using it against me. I don't know what's going on. He's NEVER said that he likes me. never. I never liked him like that either. He's really a brother to me and I a sister to him so I don't know what the problem is. Sounds like you're being tempted by forbidden fruit. Him taking off his shirt, even if he knows not how it makes you feel...it obviously strikes a chord with you -- enough to post about it ;). And this: Quote:He treats my girl friends like crap but then talks to me like they're not even there.Elaborate? More details, por favor. I'm not sure I'm understanding what that means...Also to back up my forbidden fruit theory: Quote:I never liked him like that either.Sounds like never just turned into a "maybe I do"? Freudian slip Instead of saying, "I don't even like him like that..." to show present tense see how that works haha. Good luck and I hope you do talk to him. Communication, in ANY relationship, platonic or otherwise, is important.
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It seems to me that either he is unconsciously jealous of your boyfriend, or, as blackmanoncampus suggests, you are noticing him more now.Your original post has a small typo that makes it harder to understand: you said "Especially my closest ones" when you meant "Especially my closest one". The inadvertent plural causes the reader to think the "He" of the next sentence refers to your boyfriend.
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oh sorry about that. Didn't notice that. Well, it really is my closest guy friends that have been doing it. They are overprotective but right now their OD to the max with it. They always check who I'm talking to on the phone. Trying to find out what my boyfriend and I did the day before and whatnot. It's just annoying. The guy I'm talking about never used to do what he does now. It's really not that hot in New York especially where we are for him to be taking off his shirt. And I know for a fact there's a difference in the way he's been treating me. When I say he treats my girl friends like crap meaning he never used to before. Like one girl would try to talk to him and he'll just ignore her. And when I tell him "hello, she's trying to talk to you," he'll pretend he didn't know when he heard her loud and clear. Or when we're all going to the movies or something and the guys go to the store I'm the only one he brings something back for. It's not a surprise he would do something like that but usually he does that for everyone not just one person. Our group of friends are like a family. We can be extremely raw with each other and just out there. We've seen each other gorgeous and hideous. We've had tough times and good times but we still stay together as a family. And we do our best not to go out with each other or "like" each other because we're afraid of what it might do to the group as a whole. Just doesn't work like that. But they way he's acting is setting some people off. And the other girls have noticed it too.I thought it might be because of the fact that my boyfriend has his own friends that I've become close with and maybe they're offended by that but I hang out with my friends more than my own family sometimes. So it really shouldn't be a problem.
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Sounds like there is some sexual tension. Both of you know yet don't want to do anything that will mess up your friendship. He might also love you more than a friend so he does that to make you jealous.
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seems like the usual guy thing.... don't really want you til they realise that u r unavailable, "you dnt miss water until the well runs dry". Guess he's kinda realising that ur attention has been shifted from him and he's doin the stuff for ur attention which was basically his...now he's gotta share and probably feeling threatened by it. He's goin about tryin 2 get it back and I'd suggest if u love ur boo, lay it out to him plain and straight but not in a way that wud hurt him and make u lose a friend...tell him u know that he's been tryin 2 get ur attention and what he's been doing and have a real heart to heart talk with him and see if it'll help