We're Scared...

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Last Saturday me an my girlfriend got a chance to be with each other and decided we'd have sex. Well she had either got off her period the day before and bled she said just a little bit saturday morning but then no more.The condom broke. Now I hadn't been in long, less then thirty seconds maybe, and I was in the entire time it was broken. We'd been messing around a little before hand so I had lots of precum. I noticed it and pulled out a good 5 seconds before I came. Now four days later she woke up feeling sick and keeps complaining of hot flashes. Now she's thought this tons of times before and would freak out. Please help.Could she be pregnant?

Seriously doubt it. She's not going to have any symptoms 4 days after. She's just sick or something.

That's what I keep saying. She's felt this way before. I suppose it just felt good knowing I'm not the only one doubting it. Thanks.

how long does it typically take a women to notice any signs?

It varies, but from what I have read, some of the earliest symptoms can start in about 2 weeks after conception.

hmph... theres this girl, who told me to have sex with her, unprotected cause she was "on the pill" i was unsure about it, but i knew she was clean, so i went in raw for like 10 minutes, i made shure i didnt even precum, and then when i started feeling the urge to pre cum, i pulled out, dried it off, put on a condom, and kept going, she said she didnt like how it felt, but i said too bad i aint tryna have no kids... my "pipe was empty" so i dought there was even any sperm in the pre cum... BUT, (this happened about 5 days ago) she tryna say, she skipped a couple of her pills, and that she's been feeling sick and throwing up... and i said, well it makes sense since u been doing drugs hella crazy, (A.F., Coke, weed, and drinking... (AF is Air Freshener)but yea, i think she juss tryna lie and get me worrying and such... but yea, i think she's lieing, what do u think... should i be worried, she also said "my periods late"

Doubt she's pregnant from you.. Air freshener? What a whack job!

i told her that... that air freshner is stupid, and fucks up your brain... she also does NOS in air balloons... yea shes a nutcase...i think i read that air freshner literally like... burns right through your brain cells... ahhh stupid people now a days... whatever happened to just weed and cigarettes and beer...

Thought you had a girl friend?

Quote: then when i started feeling the urge to pre cum, i pulled outThis statement makes no sense to me... when you feel the urge to precum?? As a male I have never felt an urge to precum, it just happens. It's not like cuming when you can feeling the sensation building up, it just leaks out so to speak.

i train my dick alot... ive figured out that u dont really precum, if u keep ur penis muscle tight... i tested this theory about 30 times... its when you relax that your precum seeps out... when i felt myself unable to keep that muscle squeezed any longer. thats when i pulled out, i was referring to that sensation. i guess i shoulda specified what i was talking about, my apologies.

Yeah, I thought you had a girlfriend??

Quote:theres this girl, who told me to have sex with her, unprotected cause she was "on the pill" i was unsure about it, but i knew she was cleanThere's two things I see wrong here:1) I thought you had a girlfriend, whom you love so much and want to marry, and blah blah blah.2) You didn't know if she was on the pill but somehow you knew she was clean? This makes no sense.  Quote:i train my dick alot... ive figured out that u dont really precum, if u keep ur penis muscle tight... i tested this theory about 30 times... its when you relax that your precum seeps out... when i felt myself unable to keep that muscle squeezed any longer. thats when i pulled outYou're so full of it. Your lies make it so easy to see right through you.

1.) girlfriend and i are on break, i love her dearly, and we are going to get married, she has school to do, i got my album to focus on. it was a mutual decision...2.) i know this girl, and i've gone to the health clinic with her...3.) when u have a dick virtual, u can talk...if u train ur body, u can figure things out about it, take ineligibles advice, dont jump up and say bullshit if u dont know what ur talking about...i've noticed the consistency between my dick and precum... when u relax ur penis muscle thats when the precum seeps out... u can train that muscle, which is why, i can squeeze hard enough to make it so that i dont cum at all... remember u guys told me all the health risks about that, and "blah blah blah" i dont do it anymore, but u can control that...if i cant keep that muscle squeezed and tight, i know i gotta get out, and it was a stupid decision i'll admit that, but the only condom i had was a regular, and regulars are too painful to wear for a whole sex session... AND I ALREADY KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING TO SAY!!!"well if you didnt have one that you could wear, then you shouldnt be having sex at all, and yada yada," i know that, but as alot of people have said already, they make alot of mistakes from just "going with it" and thats what i did, but i still kept my head on straight, and didnt just bust inside her like any idiot would....and your arguement virtual... i think u should just admit that your wroung right now, and apologize and save us the bandwidth because im not wroung about this and i wont say that i am, and theres no humanly possible way for you to "PROVE" me wroung.

Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYears1.) girlfriend and i are on break, i love her dearly, and we are going to get married, she has school to do, i got my album to focus on. it was a mutual decision... You love her enough that you would sleep with someone else? Well, whatever. It's your relationship.  Quote:2.) i know this girl, and i've gone to the health clinic with her...But you're still sleeping with someone you don't really trust. You sure are naive. Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearsand theres no humanly possible way for you to "PROVE" me wroung. I don't have to prove anything anymore. Your posts makes it clear for everyone to get a good idea what kind of person you are.

i have sex with a girl, whats the problem, if she fucks some dude i dont care, thats on her... i juss aint tryna get a kid out no female in these streets... i dont have a relationship wit her atm but we care for each other enough to know that were going to be together later..

Well I have a dick and I call BS. You just keep thinking you have control over your prcum and keep trusting girls who tell you to not wear a condom and when you end up with some STD or a become a daddy I'll try not to say "I told you so".

Quote:but the only condom i had was a regular, and regulars are too painful to wear for a whole sex session... Wonder how many boys use this as an excuse than end up with herpes, HPV.... or worse. Think with your brain not your dick. If you're so "Grown Past Your Years" you would be smart enough than to take such a foolish risk.

u have a dick, ok... next time u masturbate, i want u to squeeze ur penis muscle... masturbate for about 5 minutes squeezing that muscle as tight as possible... then after the time, relax ur muscle and squeeze upwards... tell me if u see precum... ill bet u there will be...

dont call bs without reason...

and for the record, im as clean as a whistle, and i know i make stupid decisions sometimes when it comes to sex. but im learning from my mistakes... just 2 years ago, i used to fuck girls and bust inside of them without caring... that was ignorant as hell of me, but luckily none got pregnant..

I call BS where I see BS. I can tell you I precum sometimes just from being overly excited and never even touching my penis. Precum is a natural "lubricant" so to speak. As you get excited along the "pumping" action of the penis will, regardless to what you think, make the precum leak out. I guarantee, as much as you might not want to believe it, while you are screwin these girls without a condom you are pre-cuming inside them, putting yourself at danger and these girls at danger.

I actually spoke to two of my friends earlier today at lunch and they were laughing at your comment, both stating you are full of BS. So make that now three people, which penises, who think you are full of BS. I really think you need to think before you post on here because you are seriously making yourself look foolish. Not to mention posting false information on the boards.

Edit: yeah you might be "Clean as a Whistle now" but only takes once to get an STD.