I still get along with my man great!So, for a year and a half almost, we have been having sex and using toys, and it gets pretty wild sometimes.All of the sudden, he is totally put off by it. He says it makes him feel inadequate. I like to think, that he is just finally comfortable in telling me that. I'm still a bit lost.A. I occasionally DO need a vibe to get off, but other times he totally rocks my world with out anything...Is it possible to reassure a guy that he is awesome even when occasional extra stimulation is needed? B. If he feels like that, should I forgo orgasm when I am "tough to get off" and fix it later when he isn't there?I know, I know, I should be talking to him more about this. I just want opinions...This IS after all my first really healthy relationship and I really don't want to go in to this one totally blind. So I guess I just answered B
Toys new rules suddenly....
Is he upset about the, ummm, size of the toy? Or is it ALL toys in general?
Not a size issue. Irm, it is more like, in general I guess. His own frustration that he can't ALWAYS get me there with out help...No one has taken a hard line approach either, I usually just want the toys when I am super horny, and can't really get enough.