Will being raised that way affect you? Maybe...Probably.. Can't help it if your parents had a odd conservative mentality.
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Virgin On Nonvirgin Hardcore Action
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Originally Posted By: ChristyRes
Yeah I hate how guys think sex is all about them. I make him satisfy me first then he gets his turn other wise I'd fall asleep.
My sex is like me just lying on the bed watching tv and him yelling "MY PARENTS JUST LEFT LETS GO!!!"
I wish his parents would never leave, his dads hott
God I'm so pathetic lol
Shere Hite's research might interest you. I have her book "The Shere Hite Reader: New and Selected Writings on Sex, Globalization and Private Life" and it's pretty cool, it's repetitive, but it makes a lot of great points.
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Fine, fine, fine, here's a picture of me since you all seem so desperate to know what I look like:http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v502/jamesters/offender.jpg
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ash that face was priceless lol but... I haven't had any "sexual encounters" yet. Don't plan to for a while so.... I'm a little slow catching on to what you guys are talking about. pink hair? mohawks are wayyyyyy better... and neon purple would have made it more unique.
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Quote: ash that face was priceless lol ahahah. well if i took a picture of how my face reacted when i read that it would have looked like that lol
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Who asked for your picture?
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=/ hmm yea. i dont think anyone asked for it.
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Thats not him, thats Bow Wow...
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LOL!!!o my bob.
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Originally Posted By: jamestersRather, if you're not hurt by the fact that your partner has had sex with people BEFORE your relationship, then why are you hurt by your partner having sex with other people DURING your relationship?And if you are hurt by both your partner having sex DURING your relationship and BEFORE your relationship, why are you hurt by BEFORE? So, you're talking about swingers? Why didn't you just post that in your original question?I wasn't hurt by the fact he had sex before I did and why would I? I wasn't a part of his life then, so it shouldn't matter to me now. It's his business and he had a different view of sex than I did. It doesn't make him evil or incapable of loving someone exclusively. In fact, in time, his views changed. He's different now than he once was.However, we are not a swinger couple. But those who are made that choice in their sexual life because it makes them happy. Everyone has a different view of sex and what makes them feel comfortable and satisfied. Whatever their choice is, how can you make up such blanket questions about something you have no experience in yet? I'm sure most swinger couples don't feel hurt they are having sex with someone else because that's the concept!Anyway, I think you're asking your questions with the wrong words. They are all assumptions. I didn't know you were originally talking about swinging. And if you're not, then what the hell are you talking about? Originally Posted By: jamestersA lot of people think the first time having sex is going to be the most amazing experience in their lives. I think it's best if I ruin the surprise for you now, that way you won't be sorely disappointed when the time comes. This is what the first time having sex is like. First, the boy sticks his wiener in the girl's vagina. Unfortunately, it turns out the girl's hymen hadn't defused, probably because she was lazy for most of her life, so the boy's penis painfully tears the girl's hymen apart causing her to bleed. Then the boy orgasms in only 2 minutes. So the girl's all crying because her hymen is broken and hurting and the boy's all crying because he really wanted sex to be a special and lasting experience for the both of them. So they cry each other to sleep, vowing vengeance to all of society's and religion's contributions to the myths of sex and sexuality. Again with the assumptions. True, not all first time experiences aren't perfect, like the media likes to portray. But I don't believe many are like what you just described. I think your imagination is a bit over the top.
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I wuv you! LOLMy first time was NOT disappointing. Funny, yes. Glad I was in love and trusted the guy, yes. But disappointing! Hell no.My youngest child's father was the lousiest thing in bed I ever knew. Had I have never had sex before, I would have stopped having sex, as it sucked that badly! Painful, and disrespectful.I have a man who has had sex before, as have I and we are just as committed as if we would have both been virgins. AND THE SEX IS AWESOME!!! Share him, no way, he is all mine NOW, and I am his NOW. End of story.
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Im not sure if he was talking about swingers. I think he's talking about cheating.
Cheating.. and having a sexual past.. are TWO completely different things. I DONT see why someone would be mad if their partner had sex before they met. I completely understand why someone would be FURIOUS & hurt if someone cheated on them. My Ex had 2 other girlfriends while he was dating me! Thats NOT ok.
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Actually, it's Elvis.
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Originally Posted By: sdp
Who asked for your picture?
Yeah I didn't really catch that part either. And what's up with that sex offender caption? That real attractive
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His great understanding of things that haven't happened.