my boyfriend of two years is moving to NEVADA!?!?!WHYYYY! Well his family is moving there so he is considering going with them. HOWEVER! I don't want him to move!!! He wants to stay in CALI for me and his friends. But he wants to move for church and family. AHHH his parents want to move to Nevada cuz there is a uh, super wal-mart...yea. And plus they like how everything is cheaper there...they're in a financially difficult situation. ANYWAYS I don't wanna be a BIG BEEZY and beg him/guilt him to stay...but I want him to know that I WANT HIM TO STAY! He told me that if he does move would I still be his gf. Cuz he'll come back in a year. BUT I DON"T KNOW IF REALISTICALLY I CAN BE like LOYAL for a whole year. My friend told me that because I'll be used to his company I would want to find a substitute.WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?!?! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. I don't wanna sound like a slut but to be honest I don't know if I can completely be hands off with other guys...if I don't see him completely for a year. AM I MAKING A BIG DEAL OUT OF A SMALL THING?!?!
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BF moving AWAY!!!!
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How old is he?#1. If he's a minor & dependent on his parents then it wouldn't be fair of you to put pressure on him to stay. Are you going to support him?#2. If you already don't think you can stay commited to him, then this is a relationship of convinience. He's better off without you. Breakup and say your goodbyes.
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I am going to question the fact you said you cannot be faithful. IF you cannot be faithful for an extended period you need to ask yourself if it is worth worrying about. Perhaps there are other more important issues here than just him moving away.