hey all, its been a while! My boyfriend and i had anal sex for the first time(his first time), we used baby oil gel because KY jelly irritates me really bad. anyway, he was pretty rough, really going at it. i guess i should explain that we're into the whole BDSM thing. anyway, it was pretty easy..didnt hurt too much. but im a little concerned about internal injuries. i couldnt find anything online about it. i had some inner pains for a day or two after, and ive been pooing funny. its all broken-up like. and today i passed a thin one that was completely bent in a U shape. WTF? could there be any serious damage in there? do we need to go easier?
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Originally Posted By: Celithrathienhey all, its been a while! My boyfriend and i had anal sex for the first time(his first time), we used baby oil gel because KY jelly irritates me really bad. anyway, he was pretty rough, really going at it. i guess i should explain that we're into the whole BDSM thing. anyway, it was pretty easy..didnt hurt too much. but im a little concerned about internal injuries. i couldnt find anything online about it. i had some inner pains for a day or two after, and ive been pooing funny. its all broken-up like. and today i passed a thin one that was completely bent in a U shape. WTF? could there be any serious damage in there? do we need to go easier? Yes, you certainly need to go easier. I would lay off having anal sex for a while. If you still hurt after a bit, I would consider getting it checked out.The whole "BDSM thing" is okay, but I have always thought that it was much better/easier to be doing kinky stuff on the outside part of your body. I mean it is so easy to do something internally in your vagina/rectum and since it is obviously not visible like other parts of your body, you have no idea what you did.If things go well and you start having anal sex again, your boyfriend MUST take it easy and used a lot of lube if he cares for your wellbeing. I mean you guys may like the pain or whatever, but this could have potential long-term consequences if you guys are not careful.Like I said, just lay off for a couple days, and see if you still hurt after a while. Check your stool to see if you have any blood in there as well, as a sign of blood can be troubling.