I'm in a tight moral spot, need some advice.

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ok, so my two best friends, Matt and Marcie, have been going out for over a year now, and today at my other friends sisters birthday, he went and kissed another girl several times, and not just any girl, she is a really good friend of both of ours and his ex from a long time ago. I am really good friends with all three of them, and i told Matt I wouldnt tell Marcie but that i thought he's a dumbass and he cant have both, but i am thinking that after what I saw him do, I am not required to keep that promise, I cant believe my friend would do that to his girlfriend while i sat a few feet away. So what should I do, 1) keep my promise to my friend of 8 years even though it makes me sick inside, or 2) tell Marcie what I saw him do and risk loosing 2 of my best friends.

ps: Marcie was not at the party.

To try to minimize the risk attempt talking to your friend Matt. Tell him how you feel. Maybe you can persuade him to tell her himself.Or if not, do what you feel is right.

sometimes having an ex in close proximity can churn up some old feelings. You didn't mention if this was the type of party where some alcohol would be involved but I'll assume it wasn't a cake and clown celebration because we're all adults.If it was an isolated incident, there is no value in stirring up shit with your friends' relationship!

...you know by tattling on your friends, you're really just tattling on yourself. By tattling on your friends, you're just telling them that you're a tattletale. Now is that the tale you want to tell?Sorry, I was having a very Brady moment... I hated them fuckers.Seriously, stay out of your friends shit until it gets serious... and don't go around talking about it with other people either. No one needs to know you know. Just because we know something doesn't mean we have to share it.By getting in the middle of their shit and stirring up the drama all your doing is running the risk of losing two friends.

As I tell my kids for tattling...Ok, she is in trouble for doing it, and your in trouble for telling.

They don't know it yet, but that is real life!

alright, alright, I feel dirty all over, but you guys know what your talking about, maybe I'll talk to matt and tell him what i think, I dont know, and there was no alcohol at the party.

Keep it zip, but tell Matt, that your having a BIG issue with it, and that you never wanna see it again, or you WILL tell the next time.At least, he will keep you from feeling guilty if he keeps it up and you don't see it.

yeah, I'll talk to him today, I personally think he should tell Marcie what he did and let her decide if he's worth it or not, just me though.