Hi all, first post from me :smile:
I've been reading this site for a while, trying to find anything to help me, but I can't.
My problem is my girlfriend, well ex now, split up with me just over a month ago. We'd been going out a year and then pretty much out of nowhere she spilt up with me. And it was seriously out of nowhere, we'd obviously had out ups and downs over the year, but we always made up and at the time when she dumped me everything was going well.
So anyway, she spilt up with me and its killing me, I love her so much and I know she still loves me (she has said she does on many occasions). Now that's where everything weird, I love her, she loves me and we still love being with each other, since silting up we've met up a few times and things have happened. Now obviously I've asked her why, and she's told me its because she feels she's being isolated, but although I believe that's she's telling me the real reasons, I still think its stupid because I only see her when I can, as I don't interfere with her life outside of me. I just don't really understand why, because the most important thing to me is that I love her and I love being with her and in my head that is all that should matter to her as well. I guess I understand her reasons, but I just want to be with her and I know she still wants to be with me in some ways. What I mean is that I think her friends have said stuff which influenced her (they've never liked me). I want her back, every night I feel like crap, sometimes I just want to die, sounds extreme, but I quite a sensitive person.
So what I'm really asking is does anyone know of anyway I could maybe try and get her back, she's means to much to me to just lose her, we still talk like everyday and I know she loves me. I just think she split with me because of the wrong reasons. So any help please :frowning: If you want to know more please ask, I don't no what to put really, just want help!
Thanks
Tom