OH MY GOD :(

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I did something so stupid..guests cant see the community forum right!?!?

Intriguing???! And no they can't see it!

I made a few other posts in different spots, and the ex came on for a second and read what i put there. it wasnt any of his business! and now i feel horrible oh my god..

Ick! I'm sorry

Well what has he said?! How do you know he came on? hugs

im talking to him on msn..

this is what was said:

"-Cooper- says:
ok, hon.... i just did something i probably shouldn't have, but i didn't see anything being wrong with it at first, and now i totally regret it, and have just mafe myself sick to my stomach....
Ashley

he said he just clicked on a random post and read the first few sentences and alt f4'd right away. i feel like im gonna hurl

hugs again I don't know what to say other than don't stress - it'll work out. How's it going? xx

its doing alright. he lost his appetite but hes coming up for supper. see, we're still really good close friends. i think the world of him, im just going through a rough patch right now. i didnt want him finding out this way. or at all really. i know i cant change what happened with steve. but the thing is, even if i could, i dont think i would have.i just cant believe of all times for him to come on this site and browse, is the time i say i slept with steve. =(

Sometimes there are a few things in life that need to be private. If you are going to complain/ask questions about a spouse/GF/BF/friend etc.. or there are things you don't want others to know... well "they" shouldn't know about a site where you are doing this posting.. Too late to fix it now.

I agree with sdp. Another option is to create another account to ask these personal questions. I know several people on the forums that actually do this.

its not my fault. he was on here once since i joined. so of all times for him to come on here, he does it NOW.

yeah it is too late to do anything about it now. but even so, im freaking out.

I've had a slightly similar experience here but nothing I'm to worried aboutJust bear in mind, he wasn't "bored" and clicking "randomly". he really was snoopingxoxox try not to worry too much about things that you can't change

you really think he was snooping guys?

he never lies to me, and he said he swore he wasnt snooping. he left the site as soon as he read a few lines.

aww babezz you have to calm down. really you do you're getting worked up and it's hurting you. please calm down because you're worrying me.

i know... =(ive been sooooo stressed the last couple months.so when these things happen it just adds to it all

Originally Posted By: unsupervisedI've had a slightly similar experience here but nothing I'm to worried aboutJust bear in mind, he wasn't "bored" and clicking "randomly". he really was snoopingxoxox try not to worry too much about things that you can't change Wow..... "he" Mr "U", Is there something you should tell all of us....? Rawr! Wink-Wink!

Originally Posted By: unsupervised

I've had a slightly similar experience here but nothing I'm to worried about
Just bear in mind, he wasn't "bored" and clicking "randomly". he really was snooping

Snooping? Really?
Isn't this a public forum open to anyone?

yeah its a public forum, but i just find it weird that he checked today. hes been on here once since i joined. and thats only cuz i asked him. this was like, 2 years ago.a little update. he came up for a nice few hours and we talked. we never mentioned anything on this forum though. when hes ready im sure we'll talk.

okay so, i asked him what he saw. he saw the post i made in the male genitalia forum. so he didnt see the one i was thinking he saw. but still...