I am soo falling for this guy. I just wish he would open to me a little better. Its like.. sometimes it takes about 10 minutes to get a response from him on msn. and when i do its NOT what im looking for at all. i want to talk to him about US, and how he feels. like, for an example. i said this to him when i got back home: "baby, i never realized how much i love you until this weekend"and guess what he said!!! :"same"WTF!!! i thought a little more than that would be said =( i dont want to be the one ALWAYS asking questions. why cant he be more open =( what do i do!? i dont want to be angry at him because of this. how do i confront him about it? i realize hes probably busy on msn. but should i not have some priority?! he has a lot of female friends that talk to him. and that i dont mind. but i dont want them flirting with him!! ill stab those chickas in the jaw!!! LMAO and one more thing.. hes on a site for pen pals because he LOVES to write. i saw his profile and it said he was looking for romance and flirting. that upset me a large amount. because on every site im on i have that im NOT looking. someone help me
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I want him to open up to me!!!!
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My impression is that maybe you're moving too fast with this relationship.
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i dont think so =( but thats your opinion and i respect it.
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The problem is that we don't know what's in his head and what his mindset is.
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hate to break it but he may not be into you as much as you are into him.
or its possible that he's just that kind of guy. i know the girl i like refuses to open up and tell me how she feels because of a past guy and maybe he had a bad experience with an ex and is scared to open up to you. never know. it takes some time and effort but he'll start talking eventually.
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yeahcan anyone give me some tips on how i can approach him about this?
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I'm sorry Ash, but I think you're rushing into things. I did a bit of snooping so I can try to better understand this. You posted back on 06/16/08 that you broke up with your long term boyfriend. Then on 07/14/08, you posted about seeing this new guy at the concert you went to, which was this past weekend.Already you're claiming to love him and be falling for him. I know you said you've been talking for months, but that doesn't make sense to me since it's only been less than a month since your last breakup. And as far as we know, this concert was the only date you've had. Of course, I'm only coming up with all this based on what you've shared with us here.And now, you made a post about your relationship about being hurt by the fact he looks at other girls and this one about not being more open with you. So, I'm getting this idea that maybe you guys are on different levels on your relationship. This early in the relationship, you're expecting him to behave as if you've been dating for years. You're freaking out because he looks at other girls and has the "single status" on meaningless websites.In my most honest opinion honey, you're emotionally out of control and insecure.You need to take two steps back and r-e-l-a-x. He's already with you. Now you just need to be more comfortable in your skin to let the relationship grow naturally. Don't sweat the small things, like the websites. And don't try to over analyze every single word he says. It will only drive you insane. Just take it as it is. Maybe this is just how he is, at least for now.Think and be positive, and just enjoy. Relax and have fun.
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well we've been friends since i was 5 years old. but we lost touch up until a few months ago. we were talking a nice while before me and the bf broke up. and no, its not the reason why we broke up. i know i need to relax. i guess im just really afraid of getting hurt. honestly i dont care a lot about the shit on those websites. it just kinda made me think thats all. Quote:You need to take two steps back and r-e-l-a-x. He's already with you. Now you just need to be more comfortable in your skin to let the relationship grow naturally. Don't sweat the small things, like the websites. And don't try to over analyze every single word he says. It will only drive you insane. Just take it as it is. Maybe this is just how he is, at least for now reading that, made me feel about 50 times better honey.
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Honey, if he hurts you, even a teeny bit, you know you have an army of people here who love you enough to hunt this sucker down! But yes, have fun with him! Let him treat you like the beautiful goddess you are. If he makes you happy, then smile! We all like it when you smile.
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haha okay this post made me smile. you totally rock honey.he does make me smile. soooo much. its unbelievable. i havent talked to him tonight sadly because i was babysitting FIVE kids. lol. yikes. but anyways, i did mention to him that id like to see him before the 19th. so we're hoping to see each other in the next couple weeksim sure if anyone hurt me, a bunch of you would get together and totally beat them. chuck norris style.