it seems to me like every time a girl will come close and say example Sit on my lap or lay her head on my legs i will get an erection. and i hide it well but its just a pain in the ass to deal with and i was wondering if like...it is normaland if girls actually like that kind of stuffand how to prevent it from happeningplease help me =) thanks
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Am i getting erections too often
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what do you mean by "Getting a boner in the face"?
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Welcome to A2A, Jakekaz. It's perfectly normal to get erections under conditions like that. How the girl reacts depends on her, but many would take it as a compliment. As albeitmyself points out, these are pretty forward girls.
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t mean to be crude but i love it when i see a guy getting hard whenever a girl is around him,doing stuff :).So what am saying is that it
s perfectly normal,and i guess that also says something about your libido. -
Considering how often erections happen during Puberty anyway, it's to be expected that they might happen in this situation.
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Don't worry, it's normal in situations like that; it can even happen in random situations as well.I can't speak for girls...but I would assume they would. As for stopping it from happening?...get some release
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thanks for the help so far guys
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I get random erections too........just wear baggy pants...................
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As you get older it will be easyer to assert some self control over your erections.
By sitting on your lap etc I'd guess that these girls are trying to get some sort of reaction out of you.
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Originally Posted By: sk8erI get random erections too........just wear baggy pants................... When I was in 8th grade, it was the first year that I started getting erections all the time, and what seemed like on and off all day long, especially in school. Most of them were not related to seeing or even thinking about anything sexual. They'd just happen. It seemed like I would always have boners in math class, which was really awkward because we were often called to go to the board to work out a homework problem in front of the class.BAGGY PANTS became a necessity for me!
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Originally Posted By: albeitmyselfIf you have girls that want to sit on your lap, they probably wouldn't mind if you got hard - it's sexy, if you like the guy....So you're saying if the girl realizes that you have an erection going on, and she realizes that it's probably because it's a reaction to her that made you get the erection, that girls probably like that? It makes them feel sexy?? (Wow...And all this time I've been trying to AVOID girls discovering that they're exciting me in that very special way!)
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Originally Posted By: albeitmyself(but again, a girl who sits on laps is unlikely to be naive). When I was 13 and in 7th grade lots of girls started hugging us guys just as a way of saying "Hi", and to come over and sit on our laps was real common too. usually, a soon as a girl would sit down she'd put her arm around my back. Not knowing what to do with my hands, I started touching the sides of their butt, or maybe even their waist. It seemed as though just touching a girl like that woud IMMEDIATELY start this tingling feeling in my penis and...a very quick hard-on! Now, depending on how she might be sitting, that boner might not have aywhere to go, so it would get kind of painful. Sometimes, I'd have to ask the girl to get up for a second, and then I'd "adjust myself", and it was usually pretty obvious what was going on in my pants! I would NEVER say anything, and I just always assumed the girls probably didn't actually notce what was going on. But now I'm thinking they did.
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Originally Posted By: ScottP14 Originally Posted By: albeitmyself(but again, a girl who sits on laps is unlikely to be naive). When I was 13 and in 7th grade lots of girls started hugging us guys just as a way of saying "Hi", and to come over and sit on our laps was real common too. usually, a soon as a girl would sit down she'd put her arm around my back. Not knowing what to do with my hands, I started touching the sides of their butt, or maybe even their waist. It seemed as though just touching a girl like that woud IMMEDIATELY start this tingling feeling in my penis and...a very quick hard-on! Now, depending on how she might be sitting, that boner might not have aywhere to go, so it would get kind of painful. Sometimes, I'd have to ask the girl to get up for a second, and then I'd "adjust myself", and it was usually pretty obvious what was going on in my pants! I would NEVER say anything, and I just always assumed the girls probably didn't actually notce what was going on. But now I'm thinking they did. thats exactly how i feel...