K so I'm 14 and all I think of is having sex, I just can't wait, I sometimes start undressing hot chicks in my mind and thinking of what I would do to them... kind of embarrassing for me, but anyways I was just wondering if that was normal. Also, I was wondering when some of you started having sex and what the average age to start that was. Please respond.:)
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I got some questions....
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I think at 14 it's fairly normal to think about sex all the time as your hormones have just kicked in to over drive and they seem to take a while to settle down.When I was 14 I was the same. I'd think about it all the time and was convinced I just couldn't wait till I was older because I wanted to so bad. The truth is, this passes and giving into the evil hormones can lead to regrets afterwards about not waiting for the right time or not truly feeling emotionally ready.Although at 14 my body wanted sex I wasn't emotionally ready to cope with it, not that I realised that at the time. I can only imagine how messed up about myself I'd feel if I'd have given in to the "urges".I waited till I had just turned 19 and was in a secure long term relationship with someone I really trusted and loved. I have no regrets.
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It's absolutely normal, but of course you don't have to do what you would like to do, and in many circumstances you definitely shouldn't.
The average age of first sex in the US is about 17, but that by no means means you must have it by then. There is no need to be average! I was much later myself.
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I see your points and I understand that I shouldn't give in to temptation, BUT IT IS SO DAMN HARD!!!!!!!! But I guess it's right for me to wait till I got a strong steady and truthful relationship till I do it......
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This is why you masturbate to deal with the sexual urges. That way you're thinking clearly rather than the mind being clouded by hormonal desires.
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im around your age and agree wit ultraif i skip masterbiatin for even 1 day ill be hard and my mind will wonder intil i masterbiat agian