My boyfriend with in about the last month and a half has gotten really bad about thinking that i'm going to cheat on him. I'm agenst cheating. And dont understand how you can do it to someone you love.. But anyway. We went out in 6th and 7th grade. broke up because of a rumor that i found out wasnt true, but i desided to wait to return to the relationship, because i moved and hour away, and it would be hard for us to see eachother(which it is...:(..). So we were broken up for about a year, and became really good friends in that time. He had a girlfriend within that year and she cheated on him.(so i can understand if he worried a little) And now we've been going out for about 8.5 months.. and a month or so ago he started flipping out about it every night.. I'd talk him through it and he'll be okay until the next day.Because i live and hour away I can to understand why he would get a little worried. But he's known me for 4 years, and i have done nothing to hurt him, to make him think that I would do that. I've been truthful, and loving, and share everything with him. I dont know if he relizes how much I love him, and how much it hurts me for him to think that i would do anything like that. I've tried to explain to him.. but it only works for the night.How do I help him through??and help me through??
Tell me why?!
Does he tend to worry about other things as well? If he does and he's a natural worrier, it's going to be hard for him to change.Does he tend to get obsessions? Again, if so, that is hard to change, though his obsessions may move from one thing to another.
no just the cheating..
He's better for now because he says if his friend can trust his gf with her being so far away that he can trust me too.
Well at least he says hes better..