Almost went to jail

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For decking a cop and giving him a bloody lip.How do I learn to control my anger around cops LOL no seriously. I have an unnatural hatred and rage towards the police in my neighborhood and it's not good.

Emm.... why?

Oh... I have a very reasonable explanation lol.I went to the store to pick up my uncle's antibiotics and there were two officer's in there and they stared me down like a friggin piece of meat the whole time. When I got to the counter one of them said "ey.. don I know yous from somwheress" big thick New York Italian accent and I said "doubt it." and the other guy was like "yeaa she looks really familiar". I knew what they were doing cause they do it all the time in an attempt to hit on girls. And as they kept trying to "hit" on me I recognized the cop with the black spiked hair was the same cop that gunned down my friend Fredrick and felt up my friend Natasha and I. So that sparked a rage in me like... you wouldn't believe. And he grabbed my arm asking me what's my name and I kinda flipped out... it's all a blur from there... I left the store in tears and furious as hell. Still am actually. I need to learn to get over this crap.. ugh!

You should have really posted that in a better way. You're making it sounding like it was her fault, it really wasn't. Granted, it would have been better if she ignored, and was risking some things.You got to stand up for your self, and chances are she would have won a court case anyway. But really bringing up religion. And actually Christians are to respect God's law. Not a couple of douches who think they can do whatever they want because they're cops.I mean you have some solid and valid points, but the way you brought them up are iffy to me.

Quote:Christians are to respect the law what a truly bizarre statement. How did Christ's interactions with "the law" work out?Abi, I'm surprised to the point of skepticism that you actually hit a cop and was allowed to walk away.I've go no love for cops, that's for sure, and I come from a very different place and background from you. What I've found in my several interactions with the constabulary is that for every one that has an honest desire to do some social good, there must be 3 more that are just bullies looking for legitimacy and power. The scary thing is, that is exactly what they get; legitimacy, power and a gun and buddies and a "take care of your own" culture.I've seen it right before my eyes... someone getting harassed, roughed up and then arrested for assaulting an officer. And they wonder why they need so many community relations officers.

As a rule I hate cops.It's a great disservice of humanity that it a largely ignored fact that the police forces where chiefly responsible for the implementation of the "Finale Solution." While the SS ran the deathcamps it was the common everyday pig on the street that found out, rounded up, tortured, murdered, degraded societies and put the unwanted on the trains to hell all the while knowing the fate that awaited these "inferiors."Another little fact lost to all but the astute. The cops that tortured, murdered and rounded everybody up where the same one that where there before the Nazis came to power and the same ones that where there after the Nazis were gone.

Christian or not, you have emotions. Anger is an emotion and emotions are sometimes hard to control. Some people can control their anger while others it’s not so easy. Anger also comes in levels. Rage is a level of anger that is harder to control. I could sit here and say - She could have done, or should have done, but we were not there so I don’t know what his reasons for grabbing her were. She could have been ignoring him, or trying too, and he grabbed her. She may have been walking away and he grabbed her. He could have grabbed her wile she was paying for the antibiotics. I dk.. Only she does. it’s hard to say - walk away. How can you walk away when some one has your arm? racist statements or harass you, that doesn't give you the right to punch someone. I don’t remember her saying anything about racist statements. They were being horney fucks to her. When he grabbed her she had a right to defend herself. She knew who they were and held her cool till he grabbed her. This is a completely different incident than when she hit the other teams player, witch I think your putting into this when you said “When people make racist statements…” You're in college AbiPeople change in college. This has nothing to do with succeeding in life. It has all to do with her past and they triggered something in her past. She could have felt angry just seeing the man that felt her and her friend up. When he touched her all hell tuned loose(that was the rage), she punched him. Just because a man or woman holds a title (cop) does not mean their always in the right.

off subject - there was a traffic cop my family knew for a long time. last year or year before.. was sent to prison for some years for child molesting. he'd pull over teen drivers (girls and guys) and well i don't need to finish you can add it all up.

@ abi- i'm thinking of how to word what i want to say to you. i may just PM you.

woah woah woah! no! omg I'm so sorry. I seriously worded this wrong. I never punched him. I just freaked out and yelled at him for touching me because it reminded me of the incident where he body searched me inappropriately and it gave me flash backs to when he shot my best buddy. It was a very emotional moment for me and I think he sort of remembered me which is why I he backed the freak up and was like "chill out". But I was beside myself.I'm sorry, I didn't mean I hit him. Hitting a cop is committing suicide in my town. If we could get away with that I would have decked him a long time ago. It was wishful thinking on my part that I actually did hit him. Hence me saying "almost went to jail for hitting him". sorry it was bad wording.

I have a cousin that was deputy sheriff, my father-in-law was captain of the detectives division for another sheriff, I had a step-uncle that was a highway patrolman and currently a step-brother-in-law that is trying to get on as a city cop. Of all those people, who I get along with by the way, only one of them ever needed to be cop. The rest, it's scary to think about.

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Christian or not, you have emotions. Anger is an emotion and emotions are sometimes hard to control. Some people can control their anger while others it's not so easy. Anger also comes in levels. Rage is a level of anger that is harder to control.

Rage is an emotion I rarely feel because it takes alot to make me that angry. But when I feel it, I can tell that it's rage because I literally feel like I'm seeing red. I hope I never get like that again. It's tiring.

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This is a completely different incident than when she hit the other teams player, witch I think your putting into this when you said "When people make racist statements..."

I'm not a violent person which it kinda sounds like I am. :frowning: I'm just very particular about my private space. It's been violated too many times if you know what I mean. I can't afford not to take precautions.

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People change in college.
This has nothing to do with succeeding in life. It has all to do with her past and they triggered something in her past. She could have felt angry just seeing the man that felt her and her friend up. When he touched her all hell tuned loose(that was the rage), she punched him.
Just because a man or woman holds a title (cop) does not mean their always in the right
It's weird that you got that much out of it but you got it exactly right down to a T. except for the punching part. I never punched him! I wish... if I did I wouldn't be talking to you guys right now.

Well that was seriously misworded... You said "Almost went to jail For decking a cop and giving him a bloody lip." meaning you DID hit him but they didn't take you to jail...LOL

I heart you. Can you adopt me? lolI'm so serious. This is my serious face: O_O

I know, I should have checked that but I think it was a spur of the moment kind of thing. hmm... better you guys than mi madre who was asking questions last night. There are some things I tell you guys that I can't tell her, unfortunately. She'd flip out and we'd probably get deported back to Brazil.

Quote:It's weird that you got that much out of it but you got it exactly right down to a T. except for the punching part. I never punched him! I wish... if I did I wouldn't be talking to you guys right now. Oh - i thought that you had. i hit it to a T cus i'm alot like that. not violent at all untill the red fills my head. And it is my past that triggers the red.

ahh, thanks for the clarification!

Maybe I misread but here's how I read it. She punched a Cop who was saying racial slurs, who was hitting on several random girls who grabbed her. Possibly it was an innocent thing, as far as I'm concerned.It was self defense. And unless it could majorly be proven otherwise, she might not "Win" a court case, but it would most likely be thrown out.

the joys of skimming then posting.this is the second post in a row I've read from you tonight and both seem to be you, barfing up an opinion without actually reading the threadkeep up the good work

Well, take the time to realize I usually show up here when I'm pissed sick and distressed and 4-5am.

Can you really blame me for not comprehending and properly reading things :P.

Not to mention, I had actually read the "You're a christian so you should be respecting the law" line before I actually made it up to her post to read. While I read over her post before I made my reply.

I was already rather pissy over the line. Due to my deep rooted hatred for religion in general, because most people miss the entire point of the religions morals. And pick out certain things to hate. While doing whatever they feel like regardless of what their religion says.

So hearing "You're a christian." as an excuse something shouldn't had happened was just a rage trigger.

I'm starting to really like the new hard-ass A.W.