first off, my ex, the one in which i loved/love truly and dearly, even now after all the pain she dealt to me,but anyway, shes distancing herself from everyone around, and i feel like shes never going to be happy like that. i know her so much, shes a very depressed person at times, and im partially scared that she might try to end her life or something in the future.she has a tendency to form patterns, and then become consistent with these routines. and thats dangerous. if she keeps ignoring everyone trying to help her, shes going to end up alone at 50...it just kills me thinking about her ever being hurt. i love her and i dont want to see her go through pain.ive tried so many things to attempt to get her attention, i even contemplated suicide as a way to get my messege across! sigh sometimes i do feel like that would be the easiest way out.
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Anything I Can Do?
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Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearsive tried so many things to attempt to get her attention, i even contemplated suicide as a way to get my messege across! Two wrongs don't make a right. As as cruel as this sounds, you can't help anyone if you can't help yourself.I don't know what she's going through, but if she's currently a real danger to herself, then get an intervention going.
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its just i dont want to forget about her, and in ten years, be like. damn i wonder whats going on with her. google her name and see "Young Women Slits Wrist" or w.e. although i know this sounds stupid, i feel like her protector. everything bad thats ever been around her, ive protected her.i got jumped because some people were going to kill her. i got into 2 fights with people who were talking crap behind her back to all her friends. when she was sick i did everything for her. ive stood in the rain with her coffee waiting for her, for damn near an hour. (the coffee wasnt that hot by the time she got it, but it was warm)theres just nothing i wouldnt do for her, and i feel that, even though she doesnt listen to me, at least me talking to her keeps her from doing anything crazy. ahh idk what to do! i just need someone to tell me what to do, and tell me everythings going to be all right!
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You can never know that everything's going to be all right, because people are responsible for their own lives, which means they have the power to make their own mistakes.