Ok lately...for the last few months...I haven't been able to ejaculate. I'm able to orgasm though. When I do ejaculate..the cum just sort of seeps out. Also since becoming sexually active the amount of time it takes for me to orgasm has extended from 3 minutes to about 10. I'm wondering why this is...I admit that I did try and stop myself from cumming a year ago because I didn't like cleaning up after myself after masturbating..and now Ithink it may be coming back to bite me in the ass. Should I go to the doctor? I have no idea what to do.
..Umm Ejactulation Problems
When you try to stop yourself from cumming when orgasming, the cum actually goes backwards into the bladder (a 'retrograde ejaculation'. Encouraging this is usually considered unwise, because it is feared that if this happens too much it might weaken the valve and happen when you don't want it. I have never seen any example where this has actually happened for this reason, though it is a common result of prostate surgery through the urethra.It doesn't seem likely that this is happening to you now, though. And many guys are naturally 'dribblers' rather than 'shooters'. Perhaps you just need a bit of a rest?