first off I literaly don't know how to be a boyfriend. Second I have this problem where I really want a girlfriend but when I start to like a girl, I think to myself, "I just don't know what to say to her, I probably won't be able to get than just friends with her." so I back off, is there anyway I can just make my mind up and go for it instead wasting my life thinking about what girl would be a better match for me? I'm starting to think that my time isn't here yet to get a girlfriend and maybe when I grow older I will be more ready. But there is a girl who I want to talk to who works at a local video store who I kind of know and I think is really cool and I want to talk to her but I feel awkward cause I don't to want to make it seem like I coming on to her. which tends to happen when I talk to girls. But I do want to come onto her but I don't want it to be extreme.
I don't know if that makes to much sense but I hope someone will understand.
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It's going to be awkward for a bit. Might as well just dive in head first. You say that she works at the video store? Perhaps she's into movies, you can talk with her about film, if you're into that sort of thing.But, if you're attracted to her, and would like to pursue a relationship with her, then you have nothing to lose. Don't let fear take over you.