So Ive been with my gf for almost 2 years, and its going well, we're happy enough, going to different colleges but only like 20 minutes away, we each still live with our parents, she works but I dont, etc. and we do the usual couple stuff, see movies, go to concerts, just hang out, all that stuff.Well, we dont really have THAT much in common, but we do love eachother, I know that. Im one of those guys that always stays busy, I have tons of hobbies, video games, Im in a band, and I do my best in school. She works, goes to school, and then sits around at her house the rest of the time. We can always talk about pretty much anything and I can make it work, but she really doesn't have much to say thats out of the ordinary. So the other day we were talking online about how much sex matters to us, and what we think the relationship is based on... and I didnt know what to say. I luckily had to go so she didnt expect anything. Now I know she'll ask me again, and I still dont know what to say... Is that bad?Edit: I guess what Im trying to say is, is it bad that I cant come up with a short and concise list of reasons as to why Im with her, but there definitely are reasons? I cant really explain this well and I apologize.
What is the relationship to you? - a hard question
You have been with her for two years and yet you can
t explain to her why you with her?Tell her how much you love,how much she lights up your day,how you think of her all the time,these kinds of stuff,we like to hear that especially when it is true.I hope am helping you through your situation,am sure the your girlfriend is a nice person and there are great things that you love about her,tell her those things.What sex means to you in your relationship? That i cant say,i`ve made some pretty foolish mistakes when it came to sex.