I know this sounds bad but...I've been going through my boyfriends emails just to see if he's being completely honest...and i found that him and this girl he used to do stuff with talk a LOT( lets call her Amanda)...more than we do in emails...she doesn't live here so it's not like they hang out but when he goes downstate with his family he always hangs out with her...in one of the emails he was talking about how after they were done talking on the phone he was up all night and was thinking about calling her back (even though me and him talk for hours every night, and i've told him many times that he can call me)...and he met someone new down there that he didn't tell me about( lets call her racheal) and one of the emails he sent her said "...it's usually more fun to be single, and it's more fun to play truth or dare single (just ask Amanda)"...should i be worried?...or am i just over exaggerating the whole thing?
first, yes its bad to snoop and you should be able to trust your boyfriend more than that but without more information its tough to make an opinion.what do you mean "stuff"? sexual stuff or best friend stuff? because if hes talking to her that much theres obviously a deep connection, you just have to try and discern which, is she his bestest most awesomely spethel fwend that hes known since they were in diapers, or does he have a crush on her? or is he hurting badly and doesnt feel like he can come to you?and without the context of the second one its really tough to say, with whats there its not a "definite 100% sure take it as the gospel truh" suggestion that he might be a little bored of the relationship but could still be faithful, because if he wasnt he probably wouldnt say "truth or dare is more fun single", with that statement it kind of leans toward him being regretfully faithful.what you need to do is seriously look into your relationship, does he have any complaints,or possible problems? has his behavior changed? has yours? are you in a sexual relationship? if so, are you sure its satisfying for both of you? look into those things before coming at him with printouts of his emails because if he isnt cheating on you that will seriously damage your trustworthiness