Ok so Its a new relationship and we have been going out for about 2 months now, and i will ask to look at his phone just for the heck of it...nott to be noisy though..and he wont let me.Is he hiding something from me?Is he cheating?Or am I over reacting?please help =)
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Well are you telling him its for no reason or are you really wanting to look because your concerned? It could be anything from hes cheating to he just likes his privacy and doesn't want you reading every txt and seeing every picture and number in his phone.He could be chatting with other girls innocently and doesn't want you to overreact or he could be chatting to other girls flirtatiously, or not chatting with anyone at all.No one really knows. If thats the only suspicion you have i wouldnt be to worried atm.
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Men tend to value their privacy and their freedom, and asking to look at his phone rings alarm bells for a guy. Even if there is nothing bad there he may take it as an aggressive act - meaning that you don't trust him or intend to keep him on a very short lead. He may be resisting simply on principle.
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To put in perspective:If my GF, without reason, asked me to show her my phone, and I said no, and she then continued to badger me, I would continue to say no because, damn it, I just said it, and there's nothing on my phone to care about.If my GF told me to give her my phone, I would very quickly begin to re-evaluate our relationship, and if it continued to happen, I would more than likely break up with her, without even a care. It's only been two months, and there are LOTS of girls.
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Alright thanks for the help.. But it's weird because before we started going out he would let me see his phone, but thats maybe cuz i wouldnt over react about girls pictures on there or something. but thankss I needed that help =)
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When I first started dating my fiance a while back, I wouldn't let her see my phone because I had some really "guy to guy" only friendly text messages and I didn't want her to get the wrong impression. But since we've grown out of that "first impression" shell, she sees everything I do. Some guys do think that if you want to look at their phone for no reason believe that you don't trust them and that can be very difficult to handle, especially when you first starting dating them.
