my parents are divorced and my mom has a few "friends"some times its wierd when I get up on saturdays and her friend comes out of her bed room...should I say something??
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"Moms Friends"
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No, your mother has the right to a private life, even though it makes you uncomfortable. It's one of the unfortunate results of divorce.
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Originally Posted By: IneligibleNo, your mother has the right to a private life, even though it makes you uncomfortable. It's one of the unfortunate results of divorce. I disagree... I think you should tell you mother it bothers you. I think she should know. Yes she has the right to a private live but not in front of the kids. what would happen if they walked out of her room buck ass naked and grabbed some coffee??If your mother wantes to screw people in her bed, then I believe she should do it somewhere else or send you kids to grandma's or to your dad's house for the night. exposing you to that kind of activity is worng!Say something to her!
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I just dont know how to start sometimes I wake up and hear her in her roomI just try to go back to sleepIf it was the same guy I guess it would be different
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it shouldnt be hard
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it shouldnt be hard to deprive yourself.
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She isn't having sex in front of sk8er. I assume the problem is that he has to meet strangers when it's obvious they have been having sex with his mother. This is certainly socially awkward and embarrassing, and it would be nice of his mother to avoid the situation if she could. I take back my previous advice, because I think sk8er could point out to his mother his embarrassment, and perhaps they can agree to some arrangement. Avoiding sk8er's embarrassment is worth some trouble, but not, I think, for his mother to consider her own house off-limits.
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I guess she is open about sexualityshe has talked about it with me..I have seen her nude and stuff thats not really the problemits seeing the guys I guess
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Well most parents are having sex with full knowledge of the kids, who often think it is gross and disgusting and embarrassing, but that shouldn't stop them.
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I came out this morning and moms in her robe and they are sitting having coffee i just was polite and said hello / got a glass of milk and went back to my room
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Originally Posted By: RadAll you can do is talk to her and let her know how you feel .... whatever that is.Maybe it's OK with you, as long as you don't have to greet the gents in the morning. maybe thats more of what I mean...........
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i guess its the vision of them at the table and she is in her robe and you can see that she is nude under it and she does not seem to mind.........
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I am going to try and talk to her todayshe did not have anybody here last nite but she went to bed earlyi know she is on the pill and I think she uses condoms as i peeked in her night stand
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Have a nice chat and let us know how it went. Hopefully she will be understanding to what you have to say..How old are you by the way?
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15why>??
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I was just wondering...
I personally wouldn't bring anyone home to have sex with when my kids were here. I always waited until they were at grandpa's house..
Kids know their parents have sex.. that's not the issue.. Being conciderate about it is...
Being considerate... by not exposing your children to it by sitting in the kitchen naked under a robe drinking coffee, giggling, flurting and basking in the warn afterglow of a night of hot and heavy sweaty screech monkey sex.
Knowing your parents do is one thing.. hearing it and seeing it the morning after is another..
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I guess the only good thing about it is when it happens she is in a god mood for a few days and does not crab at me ... or about my dad
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Personally...dude, I'm sorry she exposes you to this behavior...I think it's unexceptable for a single parent to do that....but it's my opinion... So save the nasty pm's and posts...Let us know how the talk goes..
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I guess I dont mind that she does not cover up..i have seen it beforebut i want to ask her not to have them here in the morning