Last night I'd had a few drinks and was thinking with the other head, so I spent the evening with a woman and had sex with her twice. We used condoms both times. But during the first time, it was dark as I was trying to put it on and I initially tried to put it on backwards. I turned it over and put it on the right way. At the time it did not occur to me, but I wonder if a small amount of fluid could have gotten on the condom when I tried to put it on backwards, and when I flipped it over it would have been on the outside of it. How much is the risk of pregnancy for something like that?
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Pregnancy fears
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well were you ejaculating already or was there precum on it?
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There was some precum earlier, during a makeout session, while still clothed. I don't know if there was any at the time of putting on the condom.
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chances of her being pregnant are probably very slim
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After the second act of sex, I remained inside of her for a minute or so after my orgasm. I did not lose the erection, but it softened somewhat. When I removed the condom, I noticed moisture around the base where the condom did not completely cover. It was thin and clear, sort of like sweat. I think it was vaginal secretion, and I did not see anything elsewhere to indicate that semen had seeped out through the rim of the condom, but I am also paranoid about that. Am I making this out to be rocket science, or is it really so easy to use a condom improperly?
These fears happen to me every time I have sex, to the point that the experience is not as enjoyable as it should be, and is contributing to a sense of sexual anxiety. For my own sake I am going to make certain all future sex is within a relationship. Really sweating bullets here...I am worried sick about it :confused: -
it was probably her lubrication, yeah if you're that paranoid it's best to wait to have sex