I have a problem, since I was 12 it seems only "heavy" girls seem to be attracted to me. It's so bad that sometimes their hot friends come up to me to ask if I'm interested.The thing is I'm 5' 11", 176 lbs, pretty much proportional but I'm a little out of shape I guess, no more than anyone else however I have a skinny appearance. Recently I started talking to this hot girl with a fat friend. I was hoping to hook up with her and then she goes and asks me if I found her heavy friend attractive basically ruining everything for me and making me very depressed.I'm supposedly attractive, young, with good features but only heavy girls or much older girls (30-40s) actually make a move on me, why is this? I'm 22.I respect all people and understand that the bigger girls also don't want to be alone but why are they always interested in me and the hot girls kind of look right past me, is there something about me that only attracts heavy-set girls?
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Only heavy like me...
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Kinda hard to tell given that we don't really know you at all.
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whats wrong with heavy girls?
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well loads of health issues but other than that i just don't want to date one. i just dont feel an attraction, how can i be with a girl im not attracted to? theres an evolutionary reason why men find skinny girls with wide hips and big breasts attractive because theyre most likely to be healthy and have healthy strong children.and im always in an awkward situation when i have to reject an unattractive girls advances and then im the bad guyis there a polite way to let a girl know youre not interested? will she just probably assume its because i dont find her good looking?
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heavy girls aren't "hott"?
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I don't really care who he's attracted to. But it just sounded messed up when he says the "hott" girls and then the "heavy" girls basically implying heavy girls aren't hott. But whatev.
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I'm not complaining! Means more of the more beautiful girls out there for us guys who genuinely appreciate real beauty I prefer bigger and/or taller girls. I think it's so much more attractive. Mmm, curves
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I like tall girls. I'm 5' 11". Really short girls creep me out because I feel like I'm with a child.
Anyways though, this girl I was talking to I was hoping to eventually hook up with, if she goes and asks me if I find her friend attractive, does that mean she isn't interested in me then?
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yeah and how do I do that?
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A great charming gesture... I don't have a fuckin' clue. Being charming in general... Well, at first be a little aloof and distant but not in an unfriendly, asshole like, way. Be fun to be around and witty, but not reveling of yourself in those manners. Leave some mystery about yourself but not so much as to be a complete blank slate. Make 'em work a little to discover shit about you. Being up-front and direct will get you no where, despite what they say. Be complimentary but in an off-handed manner. Never let her know just how much your into her. Make her work for it, but not to much because you might not be worth her effort. Above all make sure she has a good time around you. Who they fuck wants to be around somebody who brings 'em down, even if it's just a little.I'll probably get some shit for written this crap but experience says what women like in a person and what they respond to in a person, at least initially, are two different things.It's a bunch of game playin' bullshit but from my memory of long ago that's what it took. Lastly, this shit applies to girls in their early twenty's. That's the last time I played the field at all. I have my doubts about how well this shit would work on more mature women.
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I already figured it out, I'm already acting like more of an asshole and work, like the other day I blatantly took an attractive girl who works in the next office's parking spot, it's just a matter of time now.