i've been playing the field lately and it seems that all the guys i meet, whether it be from class or from the bars just want to have a good time, so i have decided to follow the trend. i haven't met a guy that maybe just wants to date non-exclusively either, it doesn't even have to be exclusive :frowning:
while i have been hanging out with the guy from class my other post was about a guy named Trystan, i've also been hanging out with this other guy i met a few weeks ago, his name is Tommy. No, i haven't been having sex with the both of them, just hanging out with both at the same time.
The age thing bothered me a little because Tommy's 18 and I'm 22, but he does know how to show a good time, that's why i like to hang out with him,
i don't necessarily want to go out with him because he's one of those real bad boys, etc. and not relationship material, but i love partying and hanging out with him on the weekends...it was lust at first site...
but my issue is...
he has this fiance in a different zip code clear across the states...he thinks it's okay to kick it with me here because she's not in the same zip code...
he isn't even that serious about her anyway, they've been engaged for like 3 years, heck, he doesn't even have a ring, they just say they're engaged because he thinks the kid may be his that they are raising together, when he doesn't even know for sure on that either.
he doesn't even go visit her often either...to be honest i dont even know why they're together.
i just don't like being the other woman, but in the mindset of the zip code issue, i would POSSIBLY be his only woman here...my friend thinks it's okay that i chill with him since his "fiance" is clear across the states, even he thinks it's okay because of that...if she were in the same state as us, it would be different...but still...
i dont know...i'm really lustfully attracted to him and i love to hang out with him because he knows how to show a good time...but this gf in different zip code issue is kind of bugging me,
cause if i had a bf who thought like that, i would dump his ass, but i'm just insanely lustfully attracted to him, he is a very pretty boy and one of these days i'm not gonna be able to control my actions anymore =/
what do you guys think about this logic? do you know people who thinks it's okay that where they are living now not in the same state as their significant other that means it's okay to get with the girls where he lives currently?